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Hey everybody! First post here.

 

So, I'm here looking for a bit of advice really. Been doing the whole online dating bit for a while now and I've met someone I really like. Five dates in everything's going well. Or seemingly so. Texting all day everyday, usually with her initiating it. She's invited me to her friends birthday drinks. Dates have always gone really really well. I had to cancel our date tonight as I got sick. I told her about three days ago and we've still been texting all the time with plans to meet next week instead. I said in a text tonight that I wish I could have seen you tonight. And silence. Absolutely no response. And we've been responding to each others messages instantly all night. So what I want to know is: did I come across too full on? I mean she definitely seems like she's been into me but is it too early after five dates to have said such a thing? I'd really appreciate any advice just so if I have screwed things up I know for next time!

 

Thanks everyone!

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Her phone battery might have died. Make sure she is alive. You already had 5 date, so you are not coming on too strong.

Posted

No, it sounds fine to me. Maybe she fell asleep.

Posted

So have you even tried to call her at any point? It sounds like you guys just text and have no actual really phone conversations so far.

 

Breaking a date over text is a BIG no-no to most all women I know, I would drop a guy immediately for that personally esp. so soon into dating him. However you make it sound that she initiates texts a lot so it's hard to say whether or not that irked her. You can never gauge anything about a person from texting. If you wonder, why don't you just call her and ask what's up?

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Don't call, don't worry, don't listen to this person above me. You are totally fine.

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