nikkii Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 (edited) Ok so I'm 21 and he's 22. We've been in a relationship for about 2 years now. This is my first one while its his second. I'll always been an introvert and very shy person so I never flirted with him or anything but we knew we likes each other so it just happened and we started going out! We've never had any honeymoon period as such, we've had ups and downs through, and not like the downs overpower the ups or anything. Anyway, in the beginning I had trouble expressing my feelings because of my extremely shy nature but he was very patient and now I'm very open with him! He's had issues with me being shy and not being flirty and I've tried my best to get over it but he says its no use of me flirting with him now as the window for our honeymoon stage is long gone. We've had some issues but we've always worked it out by compromising. We love each other to death and we believe in soulmates and we're extremely serious about this relationship! But lately we've been fighting a lot and his issues with me is me being to the point and direct when it comes to arguments and sometimes just keeping quite. He calls this immature and I'm working on it ! My issues with him is his controlling nature bit after a lot of thought I've come to accept him as he is because I love him. But he doesn't seem to accept me even though I'm trying to change ! Right now we're on a break and I'm desperately hoping that he'll miss me and want me back but I'm not so sure about it is this relationship gonna work? oh and BTW we trust each other the most and we're very honest and open and there's no issue in that and we respect each other the most! And also we kinda have this weird telepathy thingy which seems to be growing stronger, like I'll be having a dream about some random thing and at that very moment he'll also be thinking about that random thing, we text/ call at the EXACT same moment and we have this 6th sense about each other. I guess that's just us knowing each other so well. I'm really worried that he'll call quits and I don't want that I don't believe in perfect relationships and I know it takes a lot of hard work and I'm willing to put in just that but I'm scared that I won't get a chance is there anything I can do to make him realise all this?? thanks in advance! Edited June 21, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
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