Phantom888 Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Lately my lady has been making some really shocking remarks, but I find them extremely adorable. Last night, she told me that she fantasizes about having my baby, because the primal side of her (biologically) seeks the most desirable and fittest mate, and tries to get impregnated so that her species would thrive. Then she blushed and we both laughed. We might want to have a baby some day after marriage, assuming we are not too old. But definitely not now... which makes it so funny. The other night she said, "After your 1-year apartment lease is over, I'm gonna grab you and make you marry me!" Then she would blush and we would laugh. Even though we kid around a lot, but I suspect within the joking, there is a small percentage of truth. Do any of you make shocking remarks (jokingly) just to get a reaction, but you actually mean it just a little bit?
FitChick Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 You will be having a shotgun wedding unless you double up on the birth control. Tell her she would make a beautiful bride but a pregnant bride is too white trash Kardashian.
pteromom Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 I don't think there is a "small percentage of truth". I think she's communicating her real feelings in the context of "joking". 2
Author Phantom888 Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 How old are you guys? we are immature 38 year olds... 3
pcplod Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 It does sound as if she is dropping not so subtle hints. Maybe you need to find out but don't want to?
sweetheart5381 Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Ya, sounds like she is "feeling you out" on serious issues, while making light of it to keep you from getting anxious about it so early in the relationship. I mean, its pretty hard for a girl to come out and say "Hey, would you ever consider getting married in the future?" and "Do you see children in your future?". I'm 38 as well, and these are serious considerations before getting in too deep emotionally, depending on what each party wants in the future. At 25, it's fairly easy to predict that the other would consider marriage and a family together. At 38, that decision can be much different based on previous kids, relationships and career paths. 1
Leigh 87 Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 uhh, no way she is JOKING. Girls never say that to men who they are not that into:lmao: Or see a foreseeable future with! So yeah. Girls do not say those things for no reason. To dudes who they do not feel that way about. Why would we even joke about kids and marrying a guy who we felt was not serious about us:lmao: It would come off as crazy! She obviously knows that you're both serious about each other. Furthermore, I too, have done what SHE did. With my last relationship. We would BOTH communicate out desires for marriage in various ways, such as: him: when I was in the hospital overseas, all I thought about was you. I signed the hospital papers and put "married" on them. I asked why and he said " because I love you" me: it would be nice to get married. lol. So people do not tend to JOKE about such matters...... I mean come on.. it would just be plain crazy for a chick to talk about marriage with a guy who she had no desire to marry. Or was not in a serious relationship with.
Imajerk17 Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 (edited) The way you post everything...cripes bro youre worse than lamaga. Like twice as bad... Edited June 22, 2013 by Imajerk17 1
shexy Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 She's not joking. She wants you to knock her up. Seriously
ses Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 Take it easy. I'm sure you feel swell and maybe ready, but this is the honeymoon stage and all the oxytocin is clouding your rationality. Take a step back and don't engage in any rash decisions. I honestly don't know any woman who would just joke about a serious topic. I'm 24, and I'm always serious when I tell people I would like to marry and have children in the future. I'm definitely nowhere near ready at this point for either of these major events. You've only been dating her a short time. Get to know her better before deciding on a concrete future. Yes, her biological clock is ticking but that's no reason to go making a baby. There's still time. She may love you, but she may not be above poking a hole in the condom or not talking birth control if she's that desperate. Have a serious talk with her, and make sure you two are on the same page with respect to any and all expectations. 1
MidwestUSA Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 I don't find her remarks shocking. It is the type of ***** women say when they are loaded with oxytocin. Is 38 the new 20?
miss_jaclynrae Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 Those don't sound like jokes. Just because you laugh at the end doesn't make it funny.
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