regguy35 Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Long story short I have I big crush on my nurse. what should I do?
Emma5678 Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Hello Are you in the hospital or does she go to your house?
Author regguy35 Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 I get an iv at a medical building about every 6 weeks I only saw her for the 3rd time yesterday but I cant stop thinking about her
Author regguy35 Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 im a patient of hers so I don't wanna make things weird because everytime I see her she is on the job
Author regguy35 Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 im a patient I see her about every 6-7 weeks
happywithlife Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 As a nurse, my advice would be do nothing. She can't and shouldn't date you. If she started seeing you while you are her patient she could get fired. It's very unprofessional. You can be nice to her and chat with her. If you are finishing treatment and she won't be your nurse anymore you can mention something about your feelings at that time. But, don't be surprised if she says no due to professional reasons even then.
Author regguy35 Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 ya I figured that and I didn't want to make it awkward. We are both mid 20s and she smiles everytime are eyes connect, but isn't is normal for a nurse to fall for a patient or vise vera
Author regguy35 Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 i lost my mother when i was young and my gramma raised me since since i was 2 and lost her. i went out with this one girl for over a year and we are now apart. its hard to like/love a woman for me in fear of losing them and haven't felt this way about to girl in a long time. i just really like her and she makes me happy and smile. should i just tell her? i don't wanna make this awkward for her but at the same time i want her to know
FitChick Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 It's her job to be nice and caring. Ask if she has a friend she could fix you up with.
Feelin Frisky Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 I was in the hospital at 16. This really cute nurse would have to reach up and adjust things above my head on the wall. She didn't have to but she put her leg on the bed next to me. I was so nervous and naïve: should I dare lift my hand and brush her under there or not? Not won out. But I still wonder to this day if she wanted me too. It was a lovely leg and a pretty young babe.
pcplod Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 It is a fantasy of your imagination. If it isn't it should be. Leave it alone there, unrequited. She is a professional. If she was to fraternize with you via her professional role she would likely find herself facing a disciplinary conduct hearing. Be the gentleman and leave well alone. There are others.
happywithlife Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 A good nurse makes the patient feel good. A lot of nurses have also learned therapeutic communication skills because we are in nursing to care for all of the patient's well being - ie not just to diagnosis! I'm sure she'd love to hear how good she is at what she does and that you look forward to seeing her each week because she's such a great nurse, but leave it at that until your done w/ treatment. That will keep things from becoming awkward!
Author regguy35 Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 thx for the replies ill take some of your advice....keep them coming
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