starlet86 Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Ok, so I am doing really well. Ignored all contact for almost a week yet, which for me is fantastic. I have had flowers delivered to work, perfume delivered, love letters, pleading texts, numerous phone calls, him appearing at my door (I didn't answer) and I still haven't caved. This is killing me, but it is also helping. If he EVER wants me back he has to prove he wants me. He can say it all he likes, but I am not backing down. Every time I do, he just takes another chunk out of me. For once I feel positive about NC. Now to survive the weekend... 2
aloneinaz Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Give us the cliff notes? He broke up with you? Why? How long ago. How long did you date?
Author starlet86 Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 It is all going to sound very childish but cliff notes. Met in work, instant chemistry, hung out as friends, completely got on, started dating, got physical and I moved in. Introduced our kids to each other, planned our future, started the process to buy his home together, then everything started getting really stressful. I was in a bad place, he was in a bad place, we started fighting, we broke up, we got back together 2 days later, financial stress, ex's, work, lost the mortgage on the home, family problems, my mental health caused us to break up. Then I found out I was pregnant, more stress added to us, I made a decision for everyone, he didn't really support me through it, we stopped contact. Then we started talking again, lots of drama, hurt and confusion. Said he'd like to try again in the future but be friends at the moment whilst we sort ourselves out and work on issues that have arose since we broke up. I am doing no contact. That is basically the past 7 months. haha.
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