sstevenson23 Posted October 14, 2004 Posted October 14, 2004 My husband and I just had the biggest fight yet. It started by him playing the game I always play and he beat my score. I didn't care, then he took it too far by saying that I was done and that is why he beat me. He may have been just joking but it hits me hard because I used to be put down like that when I was younger and so it is not something that people can joke with me about. He got mad at me after that because I hit him in his arm after that. He still hasn't appologized and I now don't even expect one. Well that was just the start. Then it was about bills and who is getting attitude with who, and that I need to just get over it. The whole time we are being completly childish and all i want is an apology and then he will get one to. What do I do?
Papillon Posted October 14, 2004 Posted October 14, 2004 Video games are the EEVOL, I tell you, THE EEVOL!! Seriously, that is just f*cked up. It's not kindergarten. Grow up. Both you three.
bluetuesday Posted October 14, 2004 Posted October 14, 2004 oh no no no no no no. you admit you're behaving like a kid and then say you want an apology but he's got to do it first? madness. bite the bullet, put the whole ridiculous episode behind you and make the first move. if there are other issues sort them out rationally when you're calm.
Miss Perfection Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Does he know you dont like it when people call you dumb? Dont expect him to read your mind...you gotta let him know that really offends you. After he said that, you hit his arm........he might have taken it as a love tap. I think its cute when my girl hits me after I call her names. BUT if she is mad when she hits me I might show aggression too. See what im saying? Dont expect him to read your mind....you gotta tell him these things. GL
Papillon Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Miss Perfection.... Do you have, ahem, "blurred boundaries"? If so, it's all cool. Just wondering.
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