Coolit Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 I've only shared bits and pieces but I felt the need to write it all down. I am married to the man I lost my virginity too. He wqs my first everything including kiss. We married mid twenties, have two kids and own our house. He works and I am a stay at home mom. Last year I suffered with PPD after the birth of our second child. My H got depressed over the winter as well. He stopped wanting sex with me but I told myself it didn't matter. In all other aspects we got along well. But I finally accepted it did bother me and tried talking about it. He accepted he had a problem but nothing was changing. This is just a quick over view of my M. I don't think a great sex life woul have changed what I did as my depression was worse than I thought. 7months ago I met a man in one of our social circles. He was married to someone I had known but not well. The second time we went to a party he was at he really talked to me a lot. It was a little unsettling as I don't usually converse well with males I don't previously know. But he was friendly and so I responded. I also acknowledged I was attracted to him. He gave me his email to add him to the online game we both played. I had this gut feeling that the chemistry was mutual and I would be crossing a line adding him. So, i threw his email out. Shortly after he sent me a message on FB with just his email. I had an honest discussion with myself if I went there I could end up having affair. I refused to lie to myself about the attraction I felt. I added it and i have to say curiousity was a big factor. Nothing much came of it until the end of January. I ran into him at a social thing I didn't expect him to be at and he didn't expect me to be at. We talked a lot and he flirted. It was regular behaviour for me with guys I know but this time I felt an attraction. Upon leaving we made eye contact and I knew he wanted me. After that we started fb chatting more. He invited me to a party at his house. We kept chatting. Then our conversations started becoming inappropriate by my standards. Things I did not wish my husband to read. Discussing sexual fantasies. His W caught
Chi townD Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Okay...his wife caught you two...but you ended your post aburptly, apparently, you just got caught too! 3
Author Coolit Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 Actually i got a phone call. Deleted the post but must have posted it by mistake. I was not caught, I confessed. But i cant finish the story now.
JustAReformedGirl Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 You kind of cut it off abruptly, there. Did it go beyond the sexual fantasies discussion? Did it get physical? Or did it subsequently end, with his wife catching him? Edit: Never mind. Just saw your reply to Chi_townD
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