zyphyras Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Hi all, Met this girl in my class, din really talk much initially. One day she just text me asking me stuff, such as where I gymed and how I train etc. We texted each other for sometime and seems to hit it off quite well. Soon we went to swim, gym and even sun tan together. We get closer and closer, and during this whole period she was attached, but was drifting away from the guy. One day after spending some time together she told me not to treat her so nice, afraid that she will fall for me instead, and she also told me how bad her bf is, like how unhappy she was with him. I just listened to what she say and gave her some thoughts of mine. I still continue to treat her the same way, doing things like sending her back home, drive her go out etc. One day she told me that she like me, and always have the urge to hold my hand when she was with me. I told her that she has a bf, and should not have these thoughts, but she told me they seemed to be breaking up. I din think too much at that point cos I also not sure my feelings towards her. One day when I was at her house she jus grab my hand. It was an awkward moment, but after she held my hand I just hug her. After that the awkwardness just seemed to disappear and we just enjoy each other company. I told her that I still cant confirm my feelings with her, and also she just broke up, and I dont want to step in now. Then after talking we decided that we just enjoy each other companion but not officially together. However during this period, we really seemed to behave like a couple, and I enjoy being with her more and more. Den during this period she was really transparent with what her ex text her. Fyi it was the guy who initiate the breakup.she will tell me almost everything and always bring up her ex when we talk. I dont really mind cos I thought she just haven forget him totally. Den while we were sort of together, she get jealous of me talking to other girls damn easily. And becos I afraid she will get upset I start to talk to other girls lesser. After 2 or 3 weeks we became a couple. Then one day we plan to go out and have fun the whole day. I was really looking forward to that day but that very morning she last min told me she unable to make it, reason being that she still miss her ex etc, and the guy want to patch back. I was very disappointed in her. Its like im just a substitute to her. I asked her to think through carefully that once she go back to him we wont ever get back together. After giving her some time to think she told me she will choose neither of us since she doesn't want to her both of us. But next day when I asked her she told me she going to go back to that guy, saying he very pitiful and willing to change for her. Her friends also keep asking her to go back to him since they are already one year plus together. I was quite sad, and quite depressed. I told her I wont contact her anymore since she wanted to go back to that guy. But the next few days I realised I really cant let go, I kept thinking of her and cant sleep at night. Den I cant take it anymore and I text her telling her I still miss her alot, and dont wanna cut off contact totally. She replied that she still miss me etc and also can't forget me entirely. One day I just asked her out and I just grab her hand and she din shake it off. She still lie on my shoulder and hug me etc. Den she decide we will be "frens with benefit" till I find my next girl. next few days we talk on phone till damn late at night. But then next few days she text me she was with her bf, and asked me dont reply. And when she wasnt with him that time she seemed quite cold to me. I Dont know what she is thinking and I really can't let go of her. What should I do now?
Chi townD Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Dude, sorry but she's done and especially when she said that she couldn't forget you ENTIRELY. Which tells me that she capable of forgeting you MOSTLY! That's how I read it. You deserve better than that. Time for NC and moving on.
Author zyphyras Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 Dude, sorry but she's done and especially when she said that she couldn't forget you ENTIRELY. Which tells me that she capable of forgeting you MOSTLY! That's how I read it. You deserve better than that. Time for NC and moving on. But shes my classmate and it be awkward if its NC u get wad I mean? Is there any other way beside nc?
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