Mr. Friday Posted October 14, 2004 Posted October 14, 2004 Hey, names Matt. I'm really not the guy that's dated around alot, and has had the best sence to take the oppurtunities given to me. Awhile back, I met this girl Holly, my best friends old friend from early Highschool. They have alot of history, so I knew she was cool. We started hanging out alot, and I guess we grew on each other. She'd start coming over of the nights, we'd watch t.v. in bed, we'd cuddle, she'd sometimes hold my hand, but that was it. It was nice you know? Not any type of thoughs of sex, or lust, or any of that stuff...Just a girl I can completely be cool with. Well earlier tonight on the phone, were talking and she tells me that she'd been wandering if I'd felt the same way she had/has i.e. she'd gotten a crush on me. Now, I love the girls looks, personality, the works, and I said yes in my head in a heartbeat, but I told her that stuff wouldn't work out between us. She has college on the western side of the state soon, and I havn't even decided on what I'm going to do about college yet. I still have to work more to save for the intuition money. I just don't think that right now would be a good time to start a relationship that (I - I'm not sure about her) would want to become long-lasting if that makes sence... We talked and I said that I was sorry for leading her on, but I knew that when I'd thought about it at that moment, it hit me that I'd loved the time I'd spent with her, and that she actually means something to me, which I thought otherwise. She got sad or depressed whatnot, and I haven't been able to get in touch with her since. I miss her now that I think about it, and I wanna date Holly, but again, people would agree with me that I'm saving the both of us trouble in the future by not even giving our heart a chance to be broken in the future. Iv'e thought of nothing, this is all that's been on my mind since she hung up at 9:15, and it's now 2:38 when I'm typing this. If anyone has any direction that they think I should take, or something I might need to say to her...anything that would help please say so, I'm confussed, and I feel sick about the whole thing.
Papillon Posted October 14, 2004 Posted October 14, 2004 You dumbass. (*sigh*) Phone her and spill your guts. Tell her you've been a dumbass. She'll agree and understand. BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE! Good luck! Paps
winnieloveshunny Posted October 14, 2004 Posted October 14, 2004 Argh.. I agree with Paps! Hurry up and phone her or go and look for her at her house or something! You do like her and you know it. And the thing is the girl has already taken the initiative to tell you that she likes you! She is very upset about being rejected by you because she obviously thought that you do feel the same way about her. Apologize to her and tell her your situation now and I am sure that both of you can work something out if you like each other! How would you know that the person you are dating will end up being your wife in the future? Just enjoy the time spent with each other! Good luck!
Majik45 Posted October 14, 2004 Posted October 14, 2004 Get in touch with her and tell her how you feel. Take it a day at a time as far as a relationship goes. If you really do like her, then things will have a way of working themselves out, it just takes a leap of faith sometimes. I speak from experience, as I've decided to start dating a girl who will be going to China for 10 months next August to teach. As I tell her, we'll take it a day at a time. If she's that special, things will work out.
ps123 Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 I agree with everyone else. Call her, go to her house, bring flowers, whatever it takes. For me, Id HATE to always wonder what might have been if I had just taken the chance. Sure, it might be difficult and it might not work out, but you never know till you try. Its worth risking some pain to possibly find the one you want to be with the rest of your life. Dont worry about whats going to happen next month. Just go with today for now.
bluetuesday Posted October 16, 2004 Posted October 16, 2004 Originally posted by ps123 I agree with everyone else. me too. come clean brother. NOW, if not sooner.
Author Mr. Friday Posted October 16, 2004 Author Posted October 16, 2004 Well, I just got back from the coast, so I'm gonna giver her a call. Thanks guys
EIN Posted October 17, 2004 Posted October 17, 2004 No Regrets, go find her and let her know how you feel. "What you do in Life echos in Eternity" - Maximus
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