miss_jaclynrae Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 I'm going to chime in now. For starters, why do you guys even discuss what happens on Facebook? You do realize that by her even bringing up some guys she dated contacting her, from my standpoint she was looking for a reaction. Especially once she added the "them just wanting sex" part. I've told my man when a guy I dated messages me, but I would never say "they probably just want to bang me again!!! Lol!!!!" Your posts of her make me picture an 18 year old looking for some validation. Then there is you asking... Yes, you asked, for her to unfriendly exes. For starters, if they only dated one to two months, they are more like just men she dated. I dated a ton before I met my man some for a few weeks, one for 4 months... And the ones I am "friends with" I only have on there for... Well no reason since I have hundreds of friends on there for no reason. It's sad to make anything on fb an issue. If my boyfriend wanted me to delete every guy who was into me at some point of who I was into I would have to delete a suit ton of people. Not only would tbt be a ridiculous request, but for him to care so much would be a red flag to me. Then again, if this is the chick making jokes of getting married and having your babies, I can see why she would do it. Me though? I would tell you to eff off. Unless it was someone who I had a real thing with (like my ex husband) I would call you lame for even talking about Facebook and making it an issue in general. So yeah, I think it's controlling of you, these aren't even guys who she emitionally invested into. My advice? Stop talking about fb, how old are you guys?!? I'm 22 and not that age means much... But you both should be far beyond worrying about what happens on some stupid social media site.
truth_seeker Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 If you're in a serious relationship, then all ex's should be deleted from FB. There is NO reason to have ex-lovers on your FB. None. If you do, then you're not 100% into your relationship and are keeping your options open just in case. Let them go if you love the person you are with.
ASG Posted June 22, 2013 Posted June 22, 2013 If you're in a serious relationship, then all ex's should be deleted from FB. There is NO reason to have ex-lovers on your FB. None. If you do, then you're not 100% into your relationship and are keeping your options open just in case. Let them go if you love the person you are with. I disagree completely. I have good relationships with most of my exes, and as much as I love someone, I'm not gonna cut them out of my life just because I'm in a relationship. I wouldn't want to go back to *any* of my exes. They are exes for a reason. I wouldn't be compatible with someone who asked me to delete people off my FB. Next thing, you wouldn't be allowed to have any friends of the opposite sex. That for me, denotes a level of jealousy and distrust I wouldn't be comfortable with.
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