imtooconfused Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 Same thing, just said in high road speak. Also translates to: you bitch, have you never heard the term bros before hos? Either way, she will completely understand. Despite the fact that her move deserves taking the low road... I actually interpreted your version to be that she seriously needs help with her career, which is a completely different meaning.
Author M30USA Posted June 23, 2013 Author Posted June 23, 2013 Next time you pick up the kids say " hey, mike mentioned you were hitting on him. How is that going?" Lol, that's hilarious. I would say that but I've learned the only effective approach is silence and disengagement. She wins 100% of the time whenever I try ANY other approach or say anything at all. 1
TheFinalWord Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 (edited) What are your takes on this? Why do you think she is emailing my best buddy? What would you recommend? She could be trying to play head games with you. She knows he will say something to you and that you know she had a thing for him. When someone is desperate to hurt another person, they will use all kinds of emotional weaponry. Jealousy is an easy one to provoke b/c you were married and she knows how to push your buttons. Best bet is to trust your best friend, and not let it consume you. If she is a manipulative type of person, that is exactly what she is hoping for. I would not even acknowledge that you know. For one there is nothing you can do. These are two grown adults and they are going to do whatever they want to do. Two, if she is using jealousy as a weapon, letting her know it bothers you is giving her victory. I would advise leave it to God and do not let her control your mind or life. All the best brother. Edited June 23, 2013 by TheFinalWord 2
Author M30USA Posted June 23, 2013 Author Posted June 23, 2013 She could be trying to play head games with you. She knows he will say something to you and that you know she had a thing for him. When someone is desperate to hurt another person, they will use all kinds of emotional weaponry. Jealousy is an easy one to provoke b/c you were married and she knows how to push your buttons. Best bet is to trust your best friend, and not let it consume you. If she is a manipulative type of person, that is exactly what she is hoping for. I would not even acknowledge that you know. For one there is nothing you can do. These are two grown adults and they are going to do whatever they want to do. Two, if she is using jealousy as a weapon, letting her know it bothers you is giving her victory. I would advise leave it to God and do not let her control your mind or life. All the best brother. Thanks. It's always good to get feedback from people that I respect. 1
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