Sunlight72 Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 (edited) ETA: Also, the joke about the suicide hotline....not cool. First I'm not the type to get that invested in a relationship that I'd commit suicide. Second I've already been through depression and am currently managing it well. A relationship failing isn't going to change that. You are very right SoulSoldier, I shouldn't have said that. I don't wish you to ever find yourself there. You mentioned that you had recently worked your way out of depression (an amazing accomplishment), and the relationship you had been describing seems well written to drag you into a very bad place. It looks that way to me because that's where I found myself toward the end of my first marriage to an emotionally sealed person. I shouldn't have said it, and I apologize. I wish you a good relationship with someone who is ready to build one with you. It's really difficult (at least it was for me) to learn to choose a partner with the right and healthy components to enjoy with your own healthy traits, but when you find them and build something real it is very much worth the journey. Peace. Edited June 28, 2013 by Sunlight72 2
stillafool Posted June 28, 2013 Posted June 28, 2013 Unfortunately people (not just guys) use this excuse when they aren't really feeling you. He will not have a problem attaching emotionally when he finds the right girl. He will chase her not the other way around. You should never have to beg for time or attention in a relationship. Someone who wants you will make you a priority no matter how busy they are. Remember this for your next mate.
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