EasyGoingMan Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 Hi, She was playing hard to get. I didn't understand what she was doing because she was the first woman to play hard to get with me. The body language was all positive. (I read commentary on "is she playing hard to get") She could look me straight in the eyes without budging with lots of smiles. I got to a maybe date. She disappeared for a few days came back then I started playing hard to get by not allowing her to see me. But she knew I was there because of my car. Short story shorter. She's been gone for 2 weeks now. LADIES...What do I do? 1) Call her job? Tell her how I feel (We saw each other at the same building) 2) Leave a thinking of you card. (The mailbox is outside the building) 3) Nothing. She'll show up eventually if she's really into me. 4) Move on buddy, singing "She's gone..oh why..oh why" If #3 how do I play it? Just a "hi" and leave...Or ask her again on a date? Thanks.
charlietheginger Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 If she was a keeper she wouldn't need to play games Forget her move on. Chances are she read the book " the rules " It brainwashes women makes um act all stupid 1
Star Gazer Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 Eye contact and smiling is not positive body language enough to establish romantic interest. Have you even been on a date yet? 3
Estate Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 Hi, She was playing hard to get. I didn't understand what she was doing because she was the first woman to play hard to get with me. The body language was all positive. (I read commentary on "is she playing hard to get") She could look me straight in the eyes without budging with lots of smiles. I got to a maybe date. She disappeared for a few days came back then I started playing hard to get by not allowing her to see me. But she knew I was there because of my car. Short story shorter. She's been gone for 2 weeks now. LADIES...What do I do? 1) Call her job? Tell her how I feel (We saw each other at the same building) 2) Leave a thinking of you card. (The mailbox is outside the building) 3) Nothing. She'll show up eventually if she's really into me. 4) Move on buddy, singing "She's gone..oh why..oh why" If #3 how do I play it? Just a "hi" and leave...Or ask her again on a date? Thanks. 5) Just turn yourself in now before she does.
KatZee Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Who says she was even playing hard to get? You had a conversation with her, and you didn't even go on one date. She went about her life for a few days. SO WHAT? She doesn't owe you anything, she's not dating you where she's obligated to talk to you on a daily basis. She has her own life and her own stuff going on. In your mind, you twisted that into "she's playing games and playing hard to get" when in fact she probably WASN'T. And as a knee jerk reaction YOU decided to play LEGIT games and mess with her. Believe me when I tell you, we as women do NOT find this cute. It's obnoxious. We don't want guys messing with our heads and playing games. She's not into it, and it's why she's gone. Lesson learned. 5
HoneyBadgerDontCare Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Hi, She was playing hard to get. I didn't understand what she was doing because she was the first woman to play hard to get with me. The body language was all positive. (I read commentary on "is she playing hard to get") She could look me straight in the eyes without budging with lots of smiles. I got to a maybe date. She disappeared for a few days came back then I started playing hard to get by not allowing her to see me. But she knew I was there because of my car. Short story shorter. She's been gone for 2 weeks now. LADIES...What do I do? 1) Call her job? Tell her how I feel (We saw each other at the same building) 2) Leave a thinking of you card. (The mailbox is outside the building) 3) Nothing. She'll show up eventually if she's really into me. 4) Move on buddy, singing "She's gone..oh why..oh why" If #3 how do I play it? Just a "hi" and leave...Or ask her again on a date? Thanks. Sorry bro. You are not easy going. Just let it go. For future reference, stop caring so much. 1
Estate Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Sorry bro. You are not easy going. Just let it go. For future reference, stop caring so much. I had to LOL. It's like "This girl got a restraining order on me yo! She's playing SOOOOO hard to get, she wants me!"
Cutiepie1976 Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 The body language was all positive. (I read commentary on "is she playing hard to get") She could look me straight in the eyes without budging with lots of smiles. Your grandmother looks you straight in the eyes without budging and with lots of smiles. I'm guessing your dear grandmother isn't romantically interested in you or hoping for a date...well not that kind of date anyway. Sorry to say, it sounds like a fantasy of one while this woman goes about her life, oblivious to the torment and confusion she's apparently causing you. If you're interested in someone, ask her clearly for a date. The answer will either be yes or some version of no thanks. Yes=she's interested. Anything else=please move along to someone else. 1
Lani Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 Playing hard to get? What are you, 15? Move on from this one, and learn your lesson. Playing games is for children.
SJC2008 Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 She doesn't owe you anything, Another term that pops up frequently that I've never heard before in the context of dating until I came here.
Author EasyGoingMan Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 Guess I should have told the longer version. lol All I got to say is I was hit on by her first.
Author EasyGoingMan Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 Who says she was even playing hard to get? You had a conversation with her, and you didn't even go on one date. She went about her life for a few days. SO WHAT? She doesn't owe you anything, she's not dating you where she's obligated to talk to you on a daily basis. She has her own life and her own stuff going on. In your mind, you twisted that into "she's playing games and playing hard to get" when in fact she probably WASN'T. And as a knee jerk reaction YOU decided to play LEGIT games and mess with her. Believe me when I tell you, we as women do NOT find this cute. It's obnoxious. We don't want guys messing with our heads and playing games. She's not into it, and it's why she's gone. Lesson learned. If you knew the entire story guaranteed you'll agree she was cock teasing or playing hard to get.
Kamille Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 1) Call her job? Tell her how I feel (We saw each other at the same building) 2) Leave a thinking of you card. (The mailbox is outside the building) 3) Nothing. She'll show up eventually if she's really into me. 4) Move on buddy, singing "She's gone..oh why..oh why" 5) Ask her out in a straightforward and non game playing way. Five. I vote five. 1
KatZee Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 If you knew the entire story guaranteed you'll agree she was cock teasing or playing hard to get. Flirting and acting interested doesn't mean she's going to go and hop on your d.ick. It means she's interested and wants to get to know you further. 1
Author EasyGoingMan Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 Flirting and acting interested doesn't mean she's going to go and hop on your d.ick. It means she's interested and wants to get to know you further. Don't want her to hop on. She's a really cool lady. I don' t understand the flirting knowing she was seeing someone. I did ignore her for a year and a half. But I don't deserve that.
KatZee Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 What is the deal with all those women paranoid about men wanting sex that they bring it up preemptively like this? Who's paranoid that he wants sex? OP is the one saying she's a cock tease. Who's saying she's "teasing" his cock to begin with???
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