Farough Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 me and my girlfriend we were together for 3 years then she left to her country and we are in LDR for a year and in 6months i will move to her country and we plan to get married during one year of LDR twice she broke up ! everytime she was saying she tired of LDR and both the times she came back and said she cant leave without me ! we are back together from 1week back but she doesnt show so much love like before or when i tell her to do something she is forgeting ,,like when i say send me photo (she was sending before) she just forget or doesnt care ! when we skype she is really serious about relationship but when we text each other she doesnt show so much love ! we planned to get married when i move to her country i started learning her language and she knows its only 6months Im confused why she acting like this what do you suggest me? how can i make her show me more love? how can we have better LDR? or do i need to believe she doesnt love me and think about break up?
LittleTiger Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 I think you need to talk to her about everything you have said here. Explain that you feel she isn't as 'all in' as she used to be and you're not sure where you stand. If you're considering moving out there in 6 months you really need to know how she feels as soon as possible. See what she says and take it from there.
Author Farough Posted June 20, 2013 Author Posted June 20, 2013 I think you need to talk to her about everything you have said here. Explain that you feel she isn't as 'all in' as she used to be and you're not sure where you stand. If you're considering moving out there in 6 months you really need to know how she feels as soon as possible. See what she says and take it from there. i did talk to her she said we were seprated for sometimes,, she needs more time to be in relationship with me to feel more love and trust me more and more i asked here she is sure about 6months and she can wait until that time she said yes !! now what?
LittleTiger Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 i did talk to her she said we were seprated for sometimes,, she needs more time to be in relationship with me to feel more love and trust me more and more i asked here she is sure about 6months and she can wait until that time she said yes !! now what? Is there any way you can spend more time with her before you move there? If not, I suggest you call it off because she clearly isn't committed to your relationship at the moment. Sorry
Author Farough Posted June 20, 2013 Author Posted June 20, 2013 Is there any way you can spend more time with her before you move there? If not, I suggest you call it off because she clearly isn't committed to your relationship at the moment. Sorry only skype and texting she said she has to miss me more !!! what i have to do she miss me more?? i dont understand!!! then why she was crying she cant leave without me !! why she came back why she is saying her biggest wish is to marry me ! whats wrong and whats right !!
umirano Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 (edited) Seems like your gut is telling you something is wrong. Never ever consider moving to another country, let alone getting married, if your gut tells you otherwise. If I were you I'd calm down and carry on with the LDR until she makes it completely clear that she is 100% into you and into the plan of closing the distance internationally. Mark my words, you're in a lot of trouble if you leave your country just to be with a girl who's only half way where you are with respect to the relationship. Closing the distance and marrying into another culture/country is difficult and a long process even without relationship drama. Good luck! Edited June 21, 2013 by umirano Grammar 1
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