ltomlinson81 Posted October 13, 2004 Posted October 13, 2004 Does anyone have any good advice for getting over someone once you have broken-up? My ex and I have been broken-up for a little over a month, and while I am by no means depressed, I just can't seem to get him off my mind. I work hard, work out and go out with my friends, but that doesn't stop me from thinking about him.
jamwinswim Posted October 13, 2004 Posted October 13, 2004 Yeah its the same for me, and its like when I'm actually doing nothing, the thoughts are still there. Its not as if I'm thinking her her her all the time, or be any means depressed, but it just arises. I guess it happens when its someone you spent alot of time with and thought highly about. The times when I dont think about her though are when Im with new girls, or new people, or potential new dates. It sounds bad, but its the only time she is truly off my mind for me. And its not as if im going date crazy, but talking to new and interesting people is definately cool.
Weird Posted October 13, 2004 Posted October 13, 2004 Get your memory erased:) Seriously, I dont think there is a way to just stop thinking about someone and if the thoughts do end up going it will be because of time. The brain is weird.
DESI Posted October 13, 2004 Posted October 13, 2004 I have the same problem. It has been almost 5 months since my break up and everywhere I go everything I do he is always on my mind. It drives me crazy. Even though I work full time and I am a full time student he is always on my mind one way or another. It truely sucks, however I am one of those depressive types. Never over a guy up until now. I find myself depressed over the whole situation times where I feel like everything is pointless. I always wonder why I am so sad over everything, and he is just out having a good time, not even thinking about me, or what has happened. There really is no way to stop thinking about someone, I guess through time it should get easier. However in my case after 5 months I still think about him everyday at least 25 times a day. It is so sad. Just feel like its never going to get better. :*(
Nerak Posted March 6, 2005 Posted March 6, 2005 I've noticed a pattern - if I am the dumper I don't really have a problem getting on with my life; thoughts of the person don't encroach on my day to dat activities. If I am the dumpee, however, I obsess about the person. Cannot get them off my mind and become quite miserable. Like there is a hole in my life. Just some observations.
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