frostythesnowman Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 Feeling pretty empty and missing her a lot right now. I really feel like texting her and I know I shouldn't. Ive been doing fine except for the past couple days.... I just need someone talk some sense into me and tell me what I already know
StraylightRun24 Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 frosty I'm not exactly sure of your backstory (besides obviously getting broken up with of course), but I say before you go ahead and text her take a moment and ask yourself, "what do you hope to accomplish reaching out and how will it eventually make you feel?" I think after asking yourself those two questions you'll realize that reaching out to her is not the best idea. My poison is facebook. Everything month or so I cave and I look at my ex's and every single time, regardless of what I see, I feel like crap. So what am I going to do next time I get the urge to look at it? I'm going to ask myself those same two questions.... Stay strong. I know you can get through it! 1
Sneaky Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 I'm with you, feeling like crap today too. I'll just say what I always say and tell myself, you're not going to say something that will make her change her mind but your absence might make her miss you. In the meantime try and stay busy. Write down what you're thinking about saying here or in a journal, but don't send it.
Author frostythesnowman Posted June 20, 2013 Author Posted June 20, 2013 frosty I'm not exactly sure of your backstory (besides obviously getting broken up with of course), but I say before you go ahead and text her take a moment and ask yourself, "what do you hope to accomplish reaching out and how will it eventually make you feel?" I think after asking yourself those two questions you'll realize that reaching out to her is not the best idea. My poison is facebook. Everything month or so I cave and I look at my ex's and every single time, regardless of what I see, I feel like crap. So what am I going to do next time I get the urge to look at it? I'm going to ask myself those same two questions.... Stay strong. I know you can get through it! I really appreciate the response. And you're right- reaching out to her is not a good idea. I've learned that the hard way many, many times and nothing will make this time different. I am completely with you on the facebook thing. About once a month or so I'll cave in and it never does anything but set me back. Lately I've been contemplating just deleting my Facebook altogether
Author frostythesnowman Posted June 20, 2013 Author Posted June 20, 2013 I'm with you, feeling like crap today too. I'll just say what I always say and tell myself, you're not going to say something that will make her change her mind but your absence might make her miss you. In the meantime try and stay busy. Write down what you're thinking about saying here or in a journal, but don't send it. You're right, if anything saying something will only make matters worse. What's killing me is that we work very close to each other and I saw her yesterday driving in the lane next to me. My heart sunk and I've been thinking about her since
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