sarahjones90 Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 In short, I was seeing a guy. I thought we actually connected and had a good time but before I left for my vacation, he never bothered to come see me or anything. Now, after not speaking to him for about a week other than giving him one last chance to hang out, I find out a little bit about what happened (not from him, though). Pretty much, I call all my friends brats as a joke, in which I thought he took it as one since he started to call me one too. Didn't think anything of it, and don't remember him ACTUALLY saying to my face not to do it. Apparently he also believed I thought more highly of myself over his family, but every time he brought up family, I didn't know what to say so I would joke about it and try to go around it, so its not fair for him to hold it against me. Lastly he thought I commented on his work ethic, saying he was spoiled but last i remember, the only time that came up, I said my cousin was, nothing about him. I actually do feel bad now that I know exactly why but I really didn't know why before. Even if I blew a second chance with him, is it worth apologizing and what exactly would I say? I really did like him, but I've never been with anyone to know whats right or wrong to say or do, and believe me, I have no limits around my girlfriends. I just am a little upset and I wish we didn't end so badly before I left, and I just hope he forgives me, but he's not one for second chances. Did I ruin it? He's pretty much not speaking to me and I accepted it as maybe its because he doesn't want to be tied down or he met someone else, but I guess thats not why.
Cutiepie1976 Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 There was no chance. You could have twisted yourself into a pretzel to make him happy, and he would have ended it because he doesn't like pretzels...or you should have known to become a bagel...or whatever. Recognize that when some people lose interest, they grasp at straws and come up with phony baloney excuses why you forced them to break up with you. Let it go. Move on. Negotiating, explaining, begging for forgiveness, grovelling...nothing is going to reverse the outcome. Stick a fork in it. You're done. On to the next.
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