daddy87 Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 Its so weird recently ive been coping ok not to think about my ex or try to get back with her, but in 2 days is her birthday and my feelings at gone down again. Really hate this feeling and it makes me wanna try to speak or see her desperately
Hopeinme Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 I can understand. Today is my ex's birthday and I could not stop thibkig about him - what we would have been doing etc. i was itching to send him a text and wish him well - but I did not do it. I do not want to suffer and be back to square 1 again. This will pass for you. 2
Author daddy87 Posted June 20, 2013 Author Posted June 20, 2013 I know i really hope i can do it..jut because i know its in 2days and she already told me what she is going to do thats why i feel even worse. And i dont know if i can handle it when it comes to that day
scorpio1978 Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 You have got to look at it like just another day in the year. There are 364 other day, why should one have significance? I know it's not easy to take that approach, but it is true, it's just one day. Just like Christmas, Valentines, holidays, just another day. I had to keep repeating it to myself in my head to get through my ex's birthday, but it worked and the day after that one day was just another one too. They get easier. I remember birthdays of men I dated from 10 years ago. After a while, they mean nothing... 2
Hopeinme Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 Well, you might not be able to handle it bery well on that day, but the days after that will be okie! You will be fine! Suprisingly, my ex's birthday was not so bad as i thought it would be. I am completely fine today!
Author daddy87 Posted June 22, 2013 Author Posted June 22, 2013 its her birthday today and ive been fine all day up till when i woke middle of the night and saw she been online on chat not long ago so i couldnt help myself but left her a msg, usually it will appear on her phone but she didnt reply so i went back on it again after an hour and saw she been on it again so she just bother reply mine, and it proper upset me so i tried to ring her....I HATE MYSELF. I know she was out partying but if she had time to reply someone else why not mine?!
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