Phantom888 Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 My lady has her daughter every weekday and every other weekend, so we can only see each other during the weekends when she doesn't have her daughter. She is a very protective mom, and she refuses to introduce any man to her daughter. Makes sense, as I would not want my kids to be exposed to people I date, when there is always a possibility that the person would be gone suddenly. Prior to this last weekend, we went 10 days without seeing each other. It was very difficult. Since then, she has been trying to figure out how to see me while protecting her daughter. Yesterday she decided that I should meet her daughter as a "friend". This way we can all spend time, and would not have to go 10 days without seeing each other. This was a bold move on her part, and shows that she is really serious about this relationship, as I am. I met her daughter after work, and felt very close to her. She warmed up to me instantly, and showed me all her kid stuff. We spent some time playing with her helicopter, had pizza and watched Netflix until her bedtime. It was so much fun. After that, my lady and I spent an hour installing her new chandelier. This was definitely a 2-person job, so we worked as a team. She handed me the tools and held the parts in place while I installed the parts onto the ceiling. It was so much fun, and we were totally in sync. We both got really turned on from this home improvement task, so afterwards we went into the bedroom and made love. THEN SHE SAID IT!!! I was not expecting it. I said, "what did you just say?" She said really quickly..."I love you." That was it...I was so happy. I knew she loved me, but she was so afraid to say it. She told me when she saw how her daughter and I connected, she knew it was safe to love me with all her heart. I am so glad. I feel I have a true tag-team partner in life who will have my back no matter what happens. This mutual feeling is rare and precious. It's truly remarkable. 3
loveunlimited Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 well that's the last we'll see of HIM then..... 1
sweetheart5381 Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 Yep, meeting the kids is a pretty sure sign that 2 people expect that one another will be around for quite some time. I can understand her apprehensions but it seems pretty clear that she cares deeply enough about you that she will let you into her life completely. Congrats!! I just met my guy's daughter this past weekend I have a daughter too who is only a couple yrs younger than his. They played and had lots of fun together. My guy has also met my teenage sons and they hit it off well. Glad to hear that things are goin' great! 1
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