youngnlove89 Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 :love::love: My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years now. We have been up and down and back and forth, but nonetheless I love him and we have made it. He has done a good job at showing me he is working on his issues, slowly, but surely. He has invited me on a trip this year with his friend to go summit a mountain. Also, for my birthday we are going to my mom's to go four wheeling and hike. He even offered to help me with my medical bills because he knows I'm stressed over them. We have had some difficulty with our polar opposite schedules and making time to see one another, but we are resolving that. Knowing that he is working with me has made me realize that he wants this to work also. We are a team now. I got to see him last night and it was perfect. I just laid in his arms, we watched a movie, kissed and held each other all night. I look at him and I see love. I never knew a man could be so beautiful, but he is. His eyes are soft, his hands are rough, his butt is mine and my heart is his. It is possible for love to be rekindled. Relationships require effort and hard work. When things get tough, don't leave. Don't base your decisions on the advice from people who don't have to deal with the results. Communicate. Work together. Work on yourself. Realize what isn't working. Do what IS working. Be kind to each other, don't act on impulse. Think before you act. Tell them you love them, show them. Listen. Speak up. People can't read minds. Be reasonable. Say "I want/I need". Give them space when necessary. Don't be needy. Have your own life. Be independent. Hug tightly. Cheer them up when they are down. Never lie. Love is not jealous. Make them feel secure with you. Make them trust you. And never give up. Love BIG, love whole, love yourself and then love them. 6
jphcbpa Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 Congrats! What a blessing! Enjoy and savory the moments.
Leigh 87 Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 I am really happy for you. I could not re kindle my love but I know how you feel. I know what it feels like to lay in their arms night after night, and feel SO happy and loved. It is a wonderful feeling! Look, in spite of what people say in here, about your relationship, PLEASE just enjoy every second of it. If it makes you happy at least, with none of the drama and breaking up in the past, then that is all you need to focus on. You're happy. That is all that counts. Irrespective of the LONG TERM outcomes, that a lot of people on here seem to have an opinion about, the fact is: for now, you have worked things out with him, enough to feel HAPPY. Before, I could see that you were not entirely happy with the situation. You were not making it about YOU and your own life, you were too available to him. Taking the focus off him and learning to put yourself first and not be at his beck and call? This has helped you tremendously. You're a very pretty and cool girl. You will be fine with whatever happens with him. Just enjoy your time for now! Do not let others bring you down about it. Although, frankly: I never posted about my own relationship when I was happy, because no one on here believe he loved me or that I had a reason to be that happy with him. I just enjoyed it and KNEW how happy I was, and I stopped coming on here about the relationship in the end, as people will NOT help you, insofar as being supportive.
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