Lansing Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 So, you met a girl at an event, saw her a few times, got to talking, seemed to have a lot in common, good conversation flow, asked for her number, seemed to be mutual interest and then she doesn't return your phone call. Texted one time after that and left it. You run into her a month later (while with an attractive female friend) and just casually say hi to her and briefly talk to her. What would you do when/if you ran into her again. Do you just ignore someone who didnt make an effort to call you back or do you give them the benefit of the doubt. Like, do you put responsibility on yourself for not building enough attraction/comfort. I am sure I will run into her again at this event a year later and I still feel like we would be a good fit. No idea what happened in the year since, she could have a bf, etc .
Carenth Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 If their was mutual interest she would of returned your call. I would write them off as not interested and move on and find someone who is. No point chasing after people who don't see you that way. Waste of time and effort.
Ami1uwant Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 i agree....sometimes its all about timing. She may have interest in you but if she is already taken you have little chance.
FitChick Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 Just be polite and friendly. If she is interested, she will have to make more of an effort.
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