Trisb4u Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 Hi can someone please help me understand my ex girlfriends actions. She dumped me for what i consider silly reasons which i can explain more if anyone wants to know. As soon as she dumped me i went home and unfriended her off facebook. She noticed and messaged me and i told her why because it was hurtful seeing her appear on my news feeds. We had a very civil and calm conversation for an hour. Three days later with no contact in between she blocked me out of the blue. why i have no idead. So i messaged her asking why stupid of me i know as i should of just let it lie. Anyway she ignored me so i tried ringing which she ignored so i sent her one final message telling her how i felt and she misinterpreted something i wrote rang me up and went mental at me which she did on quite a regular basis lol. Ended the conversation with her being severely pissed off with me. Anyway another three days pass and i notice she reappear on Facebook commenting on a mutual friends photo. Why would she block me when we are happily talking then unblock me after i piss her off? very strange. Anyway any answers would be great thanks. ps yes i still care and want her back and i know i should just move on etc etc
theonlyjuan Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 Best thing you can do is have no contact with her for a while. Stay away from FB it's too dramatic 1
Author Trisb4u Posted June 19, 2013 Author Posted June 19, 2013 yeah i havent spoke to her in nearly three weeks now. It just so confusing thats all. A little more insight off someone would be much appreciated
Mack05 Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 (edited) Trisbu I'm not sure what kind of replies you are expecting here. There is no one on this site (that I know of) who is a mind reader. You usually block someone because 1) you don't want to see what this person is up to 2) you don't want this person to know what you are up 3) to help you move on from a relationship breakdown 4) For immature kids to play silly back and forth games. Basically 'blocking' is a clear and concise message, that this person does not want you in their life anymore. Now you already know this. Real 'understanding' is accepting her decision. Going over endless scenarios of 'why's', 'buts' and 'what if's' just keeps you stuck in limbo. The relationship is over. It doesn't matter what the reasons are. That is the only 'understanding' you need to grasp hold off. Anything else is immaterial. For anyone breaking up I recommend buying the book 'Getting past your breakup'. This book has many tools on how to help you move forward and this is what you need to do eventually. I don't think this site works if you are looking for answers behind an ex's behaviour. Most times you simply won't get them. We have never met her, all we can go is guess and guessing here is pointless and futile. Edited June 19, 2013 by Mack05
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