hottiedoggie Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 So there's this game I met in school and we are (quite?) close. We would go out on unofficial dates. So the story goes as such: I created a group for the catholics in my school as there werent many of us, she was also in that group, i got to know her through a friend. She used to be very talkative in that group but it all changed when i started talking to her. Apparently, my friends in that group said that she was using the group to talk to me. After that we started hanging out, studying, watching movies etc. thats when i developed feelings for her. I asked her if she wants to go on an official date with me but she rejected me saying that dont we go out often? I took that as a rejection and i stopped talking to her for a period of time. A month later she asked whether it was to late to have that date and she claimed she is very flicked minded. So we went on that date and everything was back to normal. A few months later, i confessed to her but she rejected me again. We are still hanging out and it seems that she is interested in me since she texted me alot. I'm really confused, my friends they told me it was very obvious that she liked me as she distanced herself from other guys but me. I find this reason quite ridiculous They even advised me to wait till our exam's are over since this year is our A-level year. What is she trying to do here?
Tinie Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 So there's this game I met in school and we are (quite?) close. We would go out on unofficial dates. So the story goes as such: I created a group for the catholics in my school as there werent many of us, she was also in that group, i got to know her through a friend. She used to be very talkative in that group but it all changed when i started talking to her. Apparently, my friends in that group said that she was using the group to talk to me. After that we started hanging out, studying, watching movies etc. thats when i developed feelings for her. I asked her if she wants to go on an official date with me but she rejected me saying that dont we go out often? I took that as a rejection and i stopped talking to her for a period of time. A month later she asked whether it was to late to have that date and she claimed she is very flicked minded. So we went on that date and everything was back to normal. A few months later, i confessed to her but she rejected me again. We are still hanging out and it seems that she is interested in me since she texted me alot. I'm really confused, my friends they told me it was very obvious that she liked me as she distanced herself from other guys but me. I find this reason quite ridiculous They even advised me to wait till our exam's are over since this year is our A-level year. What is she trying to do here? It seems to me like she doesn't know what she wants.
Author hottiedoggie Posted June 19, 2013 Author Posted June 19, 2013 Oh she today told me her mum knows me cause she talk to her about me. When I asked what did you tell her she said, probably everything:) Is that a good sign?
Carenth Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 She has rejected you twice. This girl doesn't know what she wants. I would of said adios the first time she rejected you.
truth_seeker Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 She is a typical girl: into you one minute, not the next. Don't focus all of your attention on her. Date other girls. Let her know you got options. That might give her a kick of urgency to make a move on you.
Author hottiedoggie Posted June 20, 2013 Author Posted June 20, 2013 most of the time she starts the conversation with me. should i just ignore her for the time being? why are girls so complex?
TheWhitestRice Posted June 20, 2013 Posted June 20, 2013 As others have said, she doesn't know what she wants. You've made it clear how you feel; all you can really do at this point is move on and focus on yourself. Don't keep her in the spotlight, see other people, let her contact you, etc. Until she figures out what she wants, it will be a waste of your time to keep yourself hung up on her. I don't mean go and ignore her/be a douche/whatever, but don't make her a priority until she makes you one.
Author hottiedoggie Posted June 20, 2013 Author Posted June 20, 2013 She just msged me, asking how was my day and she told me she feel like playing badminton... Is that like a sign for me to ask her out?
Author hottiedoggie Posted June 21, 2013 Author Posted June 21, 2013 Told her im terrible in a topic for math and she offered to teach me. No matter how you look at it she seems interested in me.
Cutiepie1976 Posted June 21, 2013 Posted June 21, 2013 (edited) Not from my vantage point as an unbiased outsider she doesn't. She seems to value your friendship. Unfortunately for you, she seems unsure about anyhing more beyond that. Since you clearly are hoping for more, find someone else. At any rate, you describe two friendly exchanges. These aren't definitive signs of interest. Edited June 21, 2013 by Cutiepie1976
Author hottiedoggie Posted July 12, 2013 Author Posted July 12, 2013 Guys, im back. I made up my mind that im not going to do anything about her until the end of my national exams, which is the end of this year. I have one more final question. Apparently she found out that some girl likes/liked me and asked me about it, after telling my side of the story, she was quite sad that i did not tell her about it, which i replied saying that she dont tell me about her relationship and i feel that she should do it before i start opening up. Your opinion of this?
Moe'sTavern Posted July 26, 2013 Posted July 26, 2013 Anyone???? Anyone what? You got your answers. Start focusing your attention on other girls. It's like your grasping at straws here with this girl.
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