Rubyemerald Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 My boyfriend spoils me, loves me, treats me like a princess most of the time, but last night we went out for dinner with another couple. He was rude, pretended to sleep when I spoke about my job, picked on things I said, quickly changed subject, disregarded my comments, and more. I was fuming, and felt humiliated, the other couple were awkward in the situation. I don't know if he was 'joking' and trying to make them laugh, thought he was being normal or just being mean. We got home and I told him how horrible he was, how much he upset me ect. He was shocked and upset at his behaviour, he didn't 'realise'. He's apologised a few times already. I'm so confused! He had only drunk half a pint of cider, so wasn't drunk and he doesn't take drugs. I've forgiven him and we made up but I can't help but feel mystified at the strange behaviour, I feel I can't truly forgive him until I have a reason as to why he treated my like ****.
Lani Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 He was being a childish jerk, so you did right on calling him out on it. He's apologised, and you say you've forgiven him. So just move on from this, and don't take it any further. IF he behaves like this again, then you have every right to be pissed and revisit the situation, but don't make him suffer for this one time. He may genuinely be sorry. Give him the benefit of the doubt.
Suave Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 My ex used to do this from time to time. It was annoying as **** and there's really no way to call them out when it happens unless you feel like dealing with awkward drama.
Author Rubyemerald Posted June 19, 2013 Author Posted June 19, 2013 Thanks everyone. I'll let it go if it happens again I'll take further action! He knows he upset me and I know he's sorry.
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