He was obsessed with my past, anyone's ex do this?

[sunshinepuppy]

I recently left my fiancé. We were together 2 years and engaged for 1 year. I would like advice on what was wrong with him; I never experienced someone like him and it bothers me that I couldn't figure out what was wrong with him. He was 46 years old, and had an incredibly bad temper. His temper usually stemmed from insecurities relating to my past relationships. He was extremely obsessed with my past relationships. He was so obsessed, he put a tracker on our shared computer and logged into every old email account he could find of mine, dating back 4 years. He contacted every person I had emailed with (from dating sites or friends) and acted like me, trying to figure out if I ever met them and what did we do together sexually. He also went so far as to call my old boss (who he thought I had an affair with), acted as an FBI agent claiming I went missing, to see what he knew about me and when was the last time he saw me. After he logged into all my old accounts, he wrote a fake email to himself, saying that someone from my past who hated me sent him an email telling him all my secrets. I knew it was him who wrote this email, as the only way he could have gotten the info was from my old facebook emails, which I saw he was logged into on his phone (which he always denied but I saw it twice with my own eyes). He did this about 1 year ago, but recently as 3 months ago he reopened an old email of mine and contacted my ex who I dated for only 6 weeks. He pretended to be me, and asked for pictures of my ex, and wanted details about our sex life. I only found out he did this because I used his computer one day and saw pictures of my ex on there that I had never seen. Is his obsession with my past a part of Bipolar Disorder?

Also, it seemed like every 4 weeks (almost like a menstrual cycle) he would blow up at me and bring up my past relationships. I was shocked when he went 5-6 weeks without bringing up my past, and he even said he was acting like the perfect fiancé, but then 1 week later he snapped. I asked if I could look at his texts from this woman he had been texting, and he went crazy. He said No I couldn't look at the texts, just like I wouldn't let him go through my old email accounts (he always wanted me to log into them but I said no, they didn't matter). He didn't talk to me for 3 days straight. Then yesterday he asked me if I had taken a shower (how nice) and then if I wanted to go view a business with him. I was really annoyed that he asked me if I had taken a shower, since that was the first thing he asked me or said to me in 3 days, so I said no, view the business yourself and I'll take another shower. He then went crazy. He screamed at me saying, "he can't wait to move on with his life, that he's finished with me, that I treat him like **** and he's sick of it, he called me a bitch, an *******, and that I needed to make arrangements for my life." Then he slammed the glass door so hard it almost broke.

Is he bipolar or just obsessed with my past and have major anger issues??

[Southern Cal Dude]

Very simple. He's extremely controlling and sick in the head. You did yourself a favor by leaving him.

[sunshinepuppy]

Very simple. He's extremely controlling and sick in the head. You did yourself a favor by leaving him.

 

LOL thanks, you made me laugh for the first time today!

[Million.to.1]

My Golly gosh....

 

This man is a stark raving lunitic! Get a restraining order.