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Right I met this guy from a dating site, we spoke on phone within less than week we spoke for 10hrs it was great, anyway met up fantastic anyways to push it on 2 months he broke up with me, why oh yeah he wasn't ready he didn't want a relationship, wtf we got on great never argued nothing, I've had the 5yr relationship with both my kids dads 1st was abuse, second fell out of love, but this??? It confuses me but breaks my heart I feel I known him a life time it's weird, tonight we spoke on phone to say goodbye he was upset as was I, I don't want it over but dunno what to do??

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Okay, I'm not great at this but I'm going to tell you what I deeply wish someone told me the moment my girlfriend dumped me. Go immediately to no contact. He'll either miss you and realize what he's lost or he won't and you'll start to slowly move on and it wasn't meant to be.

 

Nothing you say is going to make him change his mind but your absence might make him miss you.

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Totally agree with the above post! Keep your self respect. Don't contact him or chase him. It will turn him off and he'll have less respect for you. You've said your goodbyes. Disappear from his life. He'll either miss you and contact you or you know he just wasn't that into you. If he contacts you with something other than "I screwed up, any chance you'd give us another shot", ignore it.

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