phillygirl Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Hello all It's been a while since I've updated, but I did receive some email from a few members. So here's the situation: WE ARE GOING THROUGH WITH THE DIVORCE. After what feels like an eternity of emotional purgutory, we've reached that point. I finally filed in May and we are scheduled for our first court date. Also, we've informed our families, who are supportive, yet have their own perspective and emotions. In addition, I believe my STBXH has a girlfriend. Ironcially, I'm not jealous nor upset. I hope she provides what I couldn't. *********************************** As for OM--I went NC. I had to. Things became very intimate with him. In addition, he has been very supportive, emotionally and consistantly insists "listen to your attorney!!!" While he is still interested in me, and didn't want to end it, I did. Not that I don't want to be with him in the future, but right now, I'm a mess.... I am optimistic that we'll reconnect. And if not, then he gave me all that I needed from him. The feelings are still there (on both sides); and he totally respects my decision to end things right now. My belief: If he really wants me, he wants me WHOLE. Not a fragile damsel, who's a fragment of a failed marriage. So that's all... 3
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