Jamesblame Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 I'm relatively new to a town and when arriving I wasn't looking for a relationship...which doesn't mean I didn't date. I was honest with multiple dates about how little interest I had in monogamy and would date multiple women having regular semi-casual sex with several FWB at a time (no more than 3 a week). However in 6 month period I had sex with 7 FWBs, and just recently decided to get into a monogamous relationship with one of them. However, I'm finding it really hard to stay faithful and don't know if it's because I'm not interested/ ready for monogamy with her or if just in general I'm more used to getting all types of milk for literally free. Looking for advice from retired players and manwhores about when they were ready to settle and if the challenge of not cheating is a common problem--it's only been 6 weeks. This is my third attempt to date one girl after a painful, long term engagement breakup.
Phantom888 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 I'm relatively new to a town and when arriving I wasn't looking for a relationship...which doesn't mean I didn't date. I was honest with multiple dates about how little interest I had in monogamy and would date multiple women having regular semi-casual sex with several FWB at a time (no more than 3 a week). However in 6 month period I had sex with 7 FWBs, and just recently decided to get into a monogamous relationship with one of them. However, I'm finding it really hard to stay faithful and don't know if it's because I'm not interested/ ready for monogamy with her or if just in general I'm more used to getting all types of milk for literally free. Looking for advice from retired players and manwhores about when they were ready to settle and if the challenge of not cheating is a common problem--it's only been 6 weeks. This is my third attempt to date one girl after a painful, long term engagement breakup. Retired manwhore here. After my divorce, I went through a 6-months pussy binge and basically "dated" more women than I could have ever imagined. I've been a monogamous person my whole adult life, but I always wondered what it would be like to sleep around. I, too, was having sex with 3 different women a week. Many were models, some were single moms, some were much older, and sex was okay in general. I realized that sex was only okay because I didn't have romantic feelings for any of these women. The best sex I've ever had were in committed relationships, because the emotional factor plays such a big role in the intimacy for me. I think it all depends on your personality and where you are in life. If you are not ready to settle down with one girl, then don't stay in a monogamous relationship. You know when you are ready for a monogamous relationship when all you think about is that one woman, and it doesn't matter if beautiful women dance around naked in front of you, you are only interested in being with that one person. You will always be tempted physically by hot women, but your heart will always bring you back to her. For me, I am much more comfortable being in a committed relationship. I felt really empty during those 6 months with so many women. I want to be in love with ONE woman. I truly believe I have found THE ONE for me, so I am really happy right now. My advice: Do what makes you happy. 2
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