Author brittneyfoster Posted June 23, 2013 Author Posted June 23, 2013 I hate to admit it because I am having a hard with this in my own situation, but if a guy likes you they will make you theirs. He is holding you close, but not giving you what you deserve. Don't settle and wait around. It will hurt you. Trust me. Good Luck. I agree! I know that I deserve more and better, so I've made the decision to move on from him completely. I am wishing you the best too! I am glad that I am cutting him loose early on rather than vesting time and energy into him and getting hurt.
Keke1 Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 I agree! I know that I deserve more and better, so I've made the decision to move on from him completely. I am wishing you the best too! I am glad that I am cutting him loose early on rather than vesting time and energy into him and getting hurt. Yep that's what I was hinting at without actually telling you to. It's what you need to do.
Author brittneyfoster Posted June 23, 2013 Author Posted June 23, 2013 Yep that's what I was hinting at without actually telling you to. It's what you need to do. Sometimes you might have to be blunt with me...lol...hints go unreceived by this undercover blonde. Thank you. Definitely doing that now.
Author brittneyfoster Posted June 23, 2013 Author Posted June 23, 2013 Because you allow it to happen. PERIOD, There is no other reason. That is all you need to know. If you do not like it, TELL him to communicate with you and act like an adult...or its over... PERIOD. I've been totally blunt with women I have dated and told them the same thing upfront, right from the beginning. It has always worked. Games happen because you let it happen. If the person cant stop....then you stop dating the person. Its THAT simple. Thank you. It is that simple, and I just dont want to be on some emotional rollercoaster.
amkxoxo Posted June 23, 2013 Posted June 23, 2013 My guy and I dated for 3 months and then went long distance with no relationship commitment title just coasting along. He warned me that a lot of stuff was going on at home with him and that he wasn't reliable. After me being a paranoid mess and a long intense conversation he explained in more depth that he didn't want to get into a relationship because he felt i deserved more. He told me he isn't able to give me the 100% that I deserve. quote "someone that will call you everyday and be able to see you", and right now the struggles in his life prevent him from giving all that to me. He said that if things were different he would be a great boyfriend to me and how I am so nice, he wants to give me what he knows he can when he isn't having hard times in life. He is hopeful we can have something in the future.He feels bad he can't do it right now so he told me I can live my life and see other people if I choose. But I wait. This I feel is respect. This is what your guy isn't doing for you. He isn't giving you 100%, but strings you along, because you are always there. You can meet someone nice who will treat you great and give you time. Just be patient. Good Luck! 1
Author brittneyfoster Posted June 23, 2013 Author Posted June 23, 2013 My guy and I dated for 3 months and then went long distance with no relationship commitment title just coasting along. He warned me that a lot of stuff was going on at home with him and that he wasn't reliable. After me being a paranoid mess and a long intense conversation he explained in more depth that he didn't want to get into a relationship because he felt i deserved more. He told me he isn't able to give me the 100% that I deserve. quote "someone that will call you everyday and be able to see you", and right now the struggles in his life prevent him from giving all that to me. He said that if things were different he would be a great boyfriend to me and how I am so nice, he wants to give me what he knows he can when he isn't having hard times in life. He is hopeful we can have something in the future.He feels bad he can't do it right now so he told me I can live my life and see other people if I choose. But I wait. This I feel is respect. This is what your guy isn't doing for you. He isn't giving you 100%, but strings you along, because you are always there. You can meet someone nice who will treat you great and give you time. Just be patient. Good Luck! Thank you. Some people say I am sending mixed messages as well, so but in either case, I need to move on.
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