carolinaboy84349 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 (edited) Okay my girlfriend broke up with me bc we were long distance and she missed me too much, we went to the same college but then I transferred somewhere else and I flew to see her and flew her to see me, she's a foreign exchange student . She broke it with me and she texted me saying she needs time to think bc I gave her flowers and she loved them and just confused her a little bit. So she went to her home for the summer didn't message me for a month. I saw her with a boy on her Facebook picture and got jealous so I liked it lol a week later she sends me this"Hey!! How are you? Just saying that guy with me on my facebook is just one of my old classmates from high school. Tell me, what about you?"Also I'm going to her school to see friends for like 2 weeks . Shel be there so what's this message really saying. I really want her back give me some advice also she said she wanted to meet up and talk, well I live in sc on school breaks and her school is three hours north so knowing what im 3 hours away why she want me to go up and see her I mean ill do it but not driving 3 hours to get hurt you know ? A few days later she messaged me saying she wants to skype this week with me. so help me out what does she want? She still likes me? I want her back so bad ! Edited June 18, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator paragraphs
HopelessRomantick Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 There is no reason why you cannot have a mature conversation on the phone or in skype before you go up and flat out ask her to explain her thoughts and feelings and why she is now contacting you again and wants to meet up. I wouldn't go up there with your heart on your sleeve. I would keep it simple, with no expectations and play it objectively.
Chi townD Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Dude, I wouldn't buy that little text she sent you stating that the guy in the photo was just a high school friend. I mean, out of ALL the pics to throw up there, she throws a pic of her and some dude. And she was really quick to explain it even when you didn't inquire about it in the first place. Nothing you wrote gave me any indication that she wants to get with you. What I felt was her doing damage control and trying to get you into the friend zone and not have you hate her. Dude, I would just go somewhere else and have a good time. If you go up there, the stress will be through the roof.
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