Lucia Posted October 12, 2004 Posted October 12, 2004 I find it impossible to live without love, I'm literally wasting away when I'm not in love and loved back. It's like a drug, like I have a tremendous void inside, like I am that void, and I only exist, when there is another person. I cannot think in terms of "me" and "my life". Does it exist, life without love? Can it have meaning? If so, what it is like? And how to start going in that direction?
disconcertainly Posted October 13, 2004 Posted October 13, 2004 You need to be happy being alone before you enter into another relationship. It sounds to me like you may be co-dependent.
moimeme Posted October 13, 2004 Posted October 13, 2004 There are plenty of people who need your love - friends, family, people who need aid that you can help as a volunteer. Some will even love you back.
Mr Spock Posted October 13, 2004 Posted October 13, 2004 Where were all those love addiction links? You should look that up on here. Love Addiction.
Lucia Posted October 14, 2004 Posted October 14, 2004 I know all these labels, co-dependence, addiction etc. Just by repeating these magic words or pronouncing myself sick or in some way defected doesn't solve the problem. I just want to see the real life person, a role model if you want, who is happy being single and is not just inbetween relationships. For whom singleness is a lifestyle. And I mean, happy, not just bored.
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