Is it too soon?

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Here's my story: I'll try to keep it short.

 

I started seeing this guy at the end of May. So far we have been on 4 dates and all have gone really well. We communicate with each other everyday through text. He and I both initiates the conversations.

 

We texted a lot before our first date. He mentioned that he can only handle one girl/woman at a time. I'm not naive but I'm giving him the benefit of the doubt. First date went really well and we did kiss at the end of the date. When we parted he texted me and asked if we could go out again. Second date was the evening after. That also went really well. After the date we went back to my place. We made out and before things went any further he said that he should leave. We continued to text after that.

 

Our third date was 5 days after. It was a double date with a friend of mine and her boyfriend. Everything went well. After the date we went back to his place and we both just fell asleep. I left for a trip the day after our third date and we continued to communicate with one another. After I came back we went on another date and again it went really well and I spent the night at his place again, only this time we had sex.

 

So here comes my question. We were both talking about taking vacations (not necessarily together, just in general) then the subject of taking a weekend trip together came up. I thought we were going to take one this weekend or next weekend. The only time he can go is in August and so I agreed. We still have not had the talk about where we stand yet. I want to know where we stand but I don't want to scare him away. Should I have this talk with him first before booking the trip? Also, is it too soon to take a trip together?

[sweetheart5381]

Well, if you haven't had a talk about being exclusive yet then assume you are not.

 

Booking and taking a short trip together it totally cool, so long as you are ready to take up the slack if he bails unexpectedly.