sweetheart5381 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 (edited) My man and I have had an incredibly great relationship, we are 2 months into it now. I know it seems early but we are so compatible, it's crazy. I've never felt so comfortable with anyone. He sets my mind at easy anytime I feel nervous or anxious... he senses it immediately and holds my hand or holds me and comforts me. If I get a little insecure he wards it off easily with only a few words. So he went to bed a little before me tonight. He takes sleeping pills and has warned me that he talks in his sleep and not to talk back to him because he may respond and may not know how he is responding, aka, he could say something mean, or be angry if he is having a bad dream. I could hear him snoring when I went upstairs, so I snuck in so I didn't wake him. (We spend 2-3 nights a week together now). He told me before bed to go ahead and snuggle up when I came to bed, that he likes it. Out of the blue he told me half-asleep, that he loves me. There was no mistaking it, he used my name too. I didn't answer it back because I was afraid I may break my word when I said I wouldn't talk when he was asleep (because he may not remember it). Now I feel sorta bad that I didn't say it back. It's not that I don't feel it too, I do I just want to make sure that we are both in the moment. Is it wrong that I didn't answer? I feel sorta bad about it now. (As he saws logs:)) Edited June 18, 2013 by sweetheart5381
pcplod Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Nope. I don't think it is that bad. You could have said the following morning "I love you too" and if he responded by saying "Huh?" then you would know that it was just a trivial moment. In fact, you could just light-heartedly say it any time and if he asked "What do you mean; 'to'?" you could explain the context, that you didn't respond immediately when he said it and why you didn't. I reckon he will just smile and say he doesn't remember it. As an aside, why does he seem to be taking sleeping pills on a regular long-term basis? In this country doctors won't prescribe proper sleeping tablets like Zopiclone long term because they work like alcohol in that regular use results in you becoming immune to the effects so that they either stop being effective or you have to keep taking larger doses to overcome the immunity effect.
Author sweetheart5381 Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 Nope. I don't think it is that bad. You could have said the following morning "I love you too" and if he responded by saying "Huh?" then you would know that it was just a trivial moment. In fact, you could just light-heartedly say it any time and if he asked "What do you mean; 'to'?" you could explain the context, that you didn't respond immediately when he said it and why you didn't. I reckon he will just smile and say he doesn't remember it. As an aside, why does he seem to be taking sleeping pills on a regular long-term basis? In this country doctors won't prescribe proper sleeping tablets like Zopiclone long term because they work like alcohol in that regular use results in you becoming immune to the effects so that they either stop being effective or you have to keep taking larger doses to overcome the immunity effect. Thanks for the reply. And yes, I sorta have the feeling he knew he said it, he is normally quite affectionate, but even moreso this morning. If he said it once, he will say it again... hopefully when we are both wide awake. He takes Zopiclone, and has been on it for quite some time as he suffers from severe insomnia. He only takes one when we are together so he stays fairly coherent when we go to bed. He has mentioned on several occasions however that when he takes it he can talk in his sleep and have conversations but wont remember them in the morning.
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