Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 I may have said who do you want it to be. And if he went the wrong number route I may have said maybe.
KatZee Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 I may have said who do you want it to be. And if he went the wrong number route I may have said maybe. This is just really stupid. Games like this get you nowhere fast. 1
Minneloa Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 I may have said who do you want it to be. And if he went the wrong number route I may have said maybe. This simply does not make sense.
veggirl Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 well you better go to the spot. I mean you said you would be there blowing him. what if he shows up? what if he'd been like "sweet, i'll be there!" would you have gone? you should probably get rid of that anonymous phone and just text him from your regular phone, a regular message, if you want to get to know him. getting to know someone by STARTING with sexting...anonymous or not...seems a bit misguided. if he ended up finding out it's you, all he'll think about you is easy sex.
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 And what I would have said isn't pertinent to the discussion as to reply or no reply so I'm not sure why we're off topic.
SJC2008 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Your text was OTT. Men are horndogs but we have more control than we get credit for. I don't think an ex con who just served a 5 year stretch would of responded to that. Try "Hey Sexy!" next time.
Floridita Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 I think it's pertinent, considering you came to message board and admitted you anonymously sexted a man you barely know and you're baffled as to why you didn't get a response.
Minneloa Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 I think it's pertinent, considering you came to message board and admitted you anonymously sexted a man you barely know and you're baffled as to why you didn't get a response. Exactly. OP, you are confused by his behavior, but we are more confused by yours.
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 Well he wouldn't have shown up here as he doesn't know who it is and he wouldn't have gone "there" as no place was mentioned. So that reply isn't making sense to me.
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 What gives anybody the impression I barely know him? What did I say that gave you that impression or do I need to file that under the idea that how I got his number has to do with reply or no reply along with deeming by divine inspiration I have nothing in common with this guy?
Floridita Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 What gives anybody the impression I barely know him? What did I say that gave you that impression or do I need to file that under the idea that how I got his number has to do with reply or no reply along with deeming by divine inspiration I have nothing in common with this guy? I assumed because you had to sneakily get his number from a mutual friend, rather than just say something like "Hey, what's your number? Let's hang out!" 1
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 What I was hoping he would say has absolutely nothing to do with my original question. You guys are all wtf about my wanting to satisfy a curiosity about a man I've known for over a year now and then go on to ask curiosity satisfying questions(what were you hoping he would say - which has zero to do with my question) of a total stranger on a message board. Whatever.
KungFuJoe Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 LS SERIOUSLY needs to add the Jackie Chan "WTF" emoticon/meme.
Floridita Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Now I'm even more baffled. You've known him for a year, but you don't know if he "has a wife tucked away somewhere?" If you've known him so long why can't you just text him openly? Or hit on him? Or just straight up proposition him? 2
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 I didn't sneakingly get his number but rather had an unexpected opportunity to get it. And we all know what happens when we assume. Grown adults don't "hang out" and I would prefer he would contact me if we do meet for lunch or dinner.
Floridita Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 I didn't sneakingly get his number but rather had an unexpected opportunity to get it. And we all know what happens when we assume. Grown adults don't "hang out" and I would prefer he would contact me if we do meet for lunch or dinner. Then why did you sext him? Anonymous or not if you want to be "courted" in the sense that HE must contact you for a meal, then why are you anonymously sexting? Nothing you say makes any sense to me.
KatZee Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Grown adults don't "hang out" I think you're a little confused as to what grown adults do. Grown adults don't buy throw away phones to secretly sex text men they've known for a year for no other reason but to satisfy some odd curiosity. I too am baffled how you know someone for a year but haven't had any opportunity to swap numbers or even have a conversation to know whether or not he is married. 3
Weezy1973 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 If a guy gets an anonymous text like that 99 percent of the time it's spam. The 1 percent of the time it's not spam, it's 100 percent creepy. Ignoring the text is the best possible response.
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 Floridita- and this is exactly why I included in my original post that I'm shy. I will tell you he's not married but when somebody asked if its possible he's married, I answered yes it's possible as he travels the world which therefore means I have not seen him in all his homes away from home so I nor do the rest of us can only be 99.99% sure of his status. And besides the very definition of "tucked away" is that people don't know about it. So if he had anything "tucked away" none of us would know about it based on the very definition.
undergroundlife13 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Howd you get his number? If it was from a mutual friend, they most likely told him and he knows
Floridita Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Howd you get his number? If it was from a mutual friend, they most likely told him and he knows This. Also, I don't buy that you're shy. Shy girls don't send texts with graphic descriptions of oral sex. 1
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 Did I say I bought a throw away phone? I didn't. I'm a little more IT savvy than that. Yes, we've conversed and he's a widower. And since we attend a regular function as a group, there's been no reason to call. I'm just curious about him, that's it. The way he kisses me foretells he'd be hot...
eastcoastgirl88 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Wait, so you've kissed but you didn't have his number?
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