Confusedinnewyork Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Here is the situation. There is a man I really like and really can't get past the idea of having a physical relationship with him. In short, I have the hots for him in a really bad way. We have flirted and I think he's aware I have interest. I need to add that I'm the shy type but he isn't. Anyway, I managed to get hold of his number unbeknownst to him as well as an anonymous untraceable cell for myself independently of each other but when I put them together I had an idea. I sent him a dirty text just a few lines long indicating I want to go down on him and I'd be there at such and such a time to do exactly that and I just left it anonymous. That was last night and I haven't heard anything back. Nothing. I would have expected he'd at least ask who this is or see if it's a wrong number. But nothing. I will also add that if he needed to he could get my number and then eliminate me as a suspect. He's an older guy so maybe there's an "issue"? But what is with the lack of curiosity and even mental arousal to at least find out more? I'm very confused!!
Floridita Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I'm not a guy, but if someone anonymously texted me something like that I would definitely ignore it. Men aren't the only ones capable of being creepy. 1
undergroundlife13 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 How well do you know him? He could be married? This is a horrible idea, if you are looking for something purely physical then i guess go for it... Who would want to meet a random for sex without knowing who they are?
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 I may be wrong but I would think the subject matter would at least grab a guy's attention to look into it further even if its a wrong number.
sillyanswer Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 We have flirted and I think he's aware I have interest. I need to add that I'm the shy type but he isn't. If he is aware of your interest and he isn't shy then have you asked yourself why he hasn't approached you directly? I sent him a dirty text just a few lines long indicating I want to go down on him and I'd be there at such and such a time to do exactly that and I just left it anonymous. That was last night and I haven't heard anything back. Nothing. If that was me I'd just delete it. I would assume it's a 'wrong number' or perhaps even an attempt at some sort of scam targeting anyone foolish enough to reply. Maybe he thought the same?
KatZee Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 0_o So you're telling me that if someone text messaged you, some random number you've never seen, telling you to go to such and such place, and to show up naked so they could eat you out, YOU'D GO?! I'm not even sure why you would think this was a good idea in any capacity. And is that the only thing you have to offer? Blow jobs? Real classy. 1
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 I had no intention of meeting or never thought he would either. And my shyness keeps me from just going for it. I don't believe he's married but even if he was, wouldn't he at least be curious? If he has a girlfriend, I don't believe it's cheating to reply to a text asking "who is this" or "I think you have the wrong number". Maybe I need to clarify - I'm not asking about any follow through on the content but rather the lack of curiosity on a subject that's an attention grabber for most men.
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 No ... I didn't even mention a place or did I have ANY intention of ANY follow through! It was just a sexy flirt!!
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 No. It wasn't my intention to submit a curriculum vitae on all I have to offer via text. It was just a sexy text. The fact he hadn't approached me is immaterial. Remember this text didn't even come from "me".
undergroundlife13 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Its weird he didnt say whos this i wonder if hes on to you tho 1
hppr Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Here is the situation. There is a man I really like and really can't get past the idea of having a physical relationship with him. In short, I have the hots for him in a really bad way. We have flirted and I think he's aware I have interest. I need to add that I'm the shy type but he isn't. Anyway, I managed to get hold of his number unbeknownst to him as well as an anonymous untraceable cell for myself independently of each other but when I put them together I had an idea. I sent him a dirty text just a few lines long indicating I want to go down on him and I'd be there at such and such a time to do exactly that and I just left it anonymous. That was last night and I haven't heard anything back. Nothing. I would have expected he'd at least ask who this is or see if it's a wrong number. But nothing. I will also add that if he needed to he could get my number and then eliminate me as a suspect. He's an older guy so maybe there's an "issue"? But what is with the lack of curiosity and even mental arousal to at least find out more? I'm very confused!! So basically you have a thing for a guy who is a more or less a complete stranger with whom you have nothing in common and you sexted him on an anonymous phone. LOL yeah this is gonna work why didn't I ever think of doing that to women that I had crushes on when I was single... 2
KatZee Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 No ... I didn't even mention a place or did I have ANY intention of ANY follow through! It was just a sexy flirt!! What you did wasn't "sexy flirt." It was weird, and creepy. It would be "sexy flirt" if you guys were dating, and he knew who you were, and he was aware it was you on the other end of the phone. You seem to be under the impression that guys are mindless drones driven by sex and nothing more. Normal men aren't going to see a random text about getting a blow job and respond to it. It's more like, "Uh, ok." *delete* You're not going to get a guy by stalking their phone numbers and then hiding behind pay by the minute phones with these texts.
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 It wasn't my intention to "get" him via this. I was just curious how he'd reply. He isn't a complete stranger but he travels the world for his job and maybe has a wife tucked away somewhere. But not that I am aware if or any of our mutual are aware of either. I was just curious what he'd do with such a text. That's it.
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 hppr - we have a lot in common and I'm not sure how I put across the idea that we don't. What was it said to give that impression?
Minneloa Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 It wasn't my intention to "get" him via this. I was just curious how he'd reply. He isn't a complete stranger but he travels the world for his job and maybe has a wife tucked away somewhere. But not that I am aware if or any of our mutual are aware of either. I was just curious what he'd do with such a text. That's it. Sorry, I don't follow. What did you hope to learn by doing this? 1
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 I didn't view this as a learning experience like a school kind of thing but rather a curiosity kind of thing.
Minneloa Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 I didn't view this as a learning experience like a school kind of thing but rather a curiosity kind of thing. But what, specifically, were you curious about?
leftfordead2 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Here is the situation. There is a man I really like and really can't get past the idea of having a physical relationship with him. In short, I have the hots for him in a really bad way. We have flirted and I think he's aware I have interest. I need to add that I'm the shy type but he isn't. Anyway, I managed to get hold of his number unbeknownst to him as well as an anonymous untraceable cell for myself independently of each other but when I put them together I had an idea. I sent him a dirty text just a few lines long indicating I want to go down on him and I'd be there at such and such a time to do exactly that and I just left it anonymous. That was last night and I haven't heard anything back. Nothing. I would have expected he'd at least ask who this is or see if it's a wrong number. But nothing. I will also add that if he needed to he could get my number and then eliminate me as a suspect. He's an older guy so maybe there's an "issue"? But what is with the lack of curiosity and even mental arousal to at least find out more? I'm very confused!! Howvold are you again?
undergroundlife13 Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Howd you get his number in the first place?
shexy Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 If I got a random text from someone saying they wanted to go down on me, I'd ignore it. Since I'm single right now, I'd assume it was a wrong number. Or some kind of creeper stalker. I would delete it and move on with my day.
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 I was curious what he'd do with it and I got his number through a mutual friend. Does how I got his number factor into a reply versus no reply somehow?
KatZee Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 Why don't you just stop playing games and send him a NORMAL message from your own phone? I'm not really sure why you keep saying you're "curious" or "I wanted to see how he'd respond." Lets say he did respond. Then what? What was the actual plan here? 2
Author Confusedinnewyork Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 What would happen if he did respond would be based on the response and since I don't have a response, I can't answer your question.
Floridita Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 What would happen if he did respond would be based on the response and since I don't have a response, I can't answer your question. Bull****. You must have had some sort of game plan. Here are the possible responses: "Who is this?" And that's pretty much it. What would you have said?
Minneloa Posted June 18, 2013 Posted June 18, 2013 What would happen if he did respond would be based on the response and since I don't have a response, I can't answer your question. Wait, really? You just sent him a sext from an unknown number for no reason and with no plan?
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