ahmedelsaka Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Hey guys I would like to know how to make 2 people stop being so close, but still without either of them to hate each other. just make them stop trusting each other. My friend used to be really close o me and she was awesome and she didnt like all the drama and was kinda boyish and didnt like relationships and ****, (Dont even think that I like her. Just remove that possibility. I like another girl) anyway and this friend of mine just comes in and starts talking to her and now she still likes me and trusts me but just not as much as him. And I would have just stopped trusting her but this has happened more than once, people really like him ! My ex-girlfriend dumped me because she liked him, My choldhood best friend stopped treating me like a best friend and he never called since that guy came. I want this to stop. I dont like that girl but I trust her and I barely have any people I can really talk to and me and I just dont want him to come and ruin everything. I just dont. I dont like ruining ****. but I dont like being treated like this. I want this to stop.
todreaminblue Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I am sorry that you feel discarded....but you cannot own people...or choose their friends...people are free spirits who have the choice to be friends with who they want to be friends with...you have to watch your need to control who your friends are talking to........you need to relax a bit and understand.....if someone is friends with someone else....doesn't mean they like you any less...dont become co dependant on one person...its a slippery slope.make an effort to get out there and socialize .....see people......get to know them...and you will find you too...can have more than one friend who you trust...open up just a little...and you will see...people will want to chill with you.....best wishes..........deb 1
AutumnRose1974 Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 Hey guys I would like to know how to make 2 people stop being so close, but still without either of them to hate each other. just make them stop trusting each other. My friend used to be really close o me and she was awesome and she didnt like all the drama and was kinda boyish and didnt like relationships and ****, (Dont even think that I like her. Just remove that possibility. I like another girl) anyway and this friend of mine just comes in and starts talking to her and now she still likes me and trusts me but just not as much as him. And I would have just stopped trusting her but this has happened more than once, people really like him ! My ex-girlfriend dumped me because she liked him, My choldhood best friend stopped treating me like a best friend and he never called since that guy came. I want this to stop. I dont like that girl but I trust her and I barely have any people I can really talk to and me and I just dont want him to come and ruin everything. I just dont. I dont like ruining ****. but I dont like being treated like this. I want this to stop. I suggest that you read over the parts of your post that I bolded, and ask yourself if you would want to be friends with someone who would do something like that. The only person who will "ruin everything" if you try pulling a stunt like that will be YOU. Oh, it will stop all right, with you on the outside looking in when this girl decides she doesn't want any part of you because you've revealed yourself to be someone who thinks they can manipulate other peoples' relationships.
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