theonlyjuan Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 So, it's been 8 days since we broke up. I finally stopped crying about 5 days ago. Today I actually felt a lot happier and started to think positively about the future. We are still going to be friends etc. We have text a bit etc. Anyway, today she asked me if I wanted her to drop off some things. I said ok to it, if she wanted to. I asked if she wanted to come over for a bit for a chat etc. She said no but maybe we can meet up for a drink, after some time has passed. I am quit nervous about seeing her tomorrow. Am I going to see her and get all those horrible feelings and thoughts return, or will I be ok and still be positive and accept what has happened? If I decide it's a bad idea, what should I say to her? I don't want her to think that I don't care or I'm trying to avoid her.
Chrisal23 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 At this point you should only worry about yourself. Did she worry when she broke up with you? She asked to drop some stuff off maybe as an excuse to see you? who knows but only she does. Don't give her the power for her to decide what to do. In my opinion you should stay away from her until you recover. Be honest to yourself and I'm sure you're nervous happy about seeing her. But in the end you're not ready for the good or bad reaction you will have and what she might say that could hurt you and make you feel worse. Think about yourself and if she really wants to drop things off let her know she can drop them off in your mailbox. Like why does she have to see you? Don't fall for her games please..
Author theonlyjuan Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 I don't have a bad word to say about her. She was really upset and worried when she broke up with me. I was wondering why she wanted to drop it off, but she's a very kind person. I don't want to read into anything that might not be anything. If I see her, how should I act ( If I can control emotions ) Should I act upbeat like I'm getting along ok etc or sad? I know that sounds stupid
McGriff Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 If its only been 8 days, you are not ready to see her, my friend. Talk about being set back. She's gonna be attractive to you, and when she leaves you with that pathetic "sidehug" thing, you'll feel patronized and the overwhelming sadness will return. For your own good, either have her drop by when you're not there, or just make up a reason to do it some other time. Trust me on this.
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