Author princess66666 Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 You are way too invested after 2 weeks, imagine how much worse its going to get. im sure you wont listen to me though. no, i will definitely consider what you say. there are some qualities about him that i severely dislike anyway. i already gave him the "let's be friends" talk on our second meeting, and he just said, "i'll be whatever you want me to be". i think having sex with him is clouding my rationality, so it really needs to stop. i think i'll just stop hanging out with him for a while and then resume after the romantic feelings have died/ i'm seeing someone else
undergroundlife13 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I hope so, i know sex complicates things. ive been there, but now dealing with my break up and fwb issues ive learned that the next guy whos interested in me will not get sex until we are in a relationship. i hope you do the same..
ExpatInItaly Posted June 19, 2013 Posted June 19, 2013 expat: do you think he'll ever change his mind about that? is it just because it's too soon after his LTR and he needs more time being single? Change his mind about not wanting a commitment? Probably. It's normal to want some space and personal time after a break-up. I'd say most people eventually want an exclusive relationship again at some point. In the end, you'll be thankful he told you this instead of learning the hard way that he doesn't want a relationship. I promise!
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