carriel Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I will not make this a long story as I want responses! haha short as possible I have been seeing a guy for about a year and a half "dating", but he was only my officially boyfriend for 6 months. We are both fun college students and love to go out together. We have never had a big argument. We kind of bicker or have passive aggressive arguments over small stupid things and then quickly recover... like what happens when you just spend too much time with someone who you'd usually love but then they get on your nerves. Recently I've kind of been in a funk (no reason really) and have not been leaving my house. He is a very nice person and would come see me all the time, just watch movies and eat haha. We were both very good significant others to one another but at this time we had a lot of down time and the stupid bickering happens. We still remained really affectionate and loving towards one another though. We've been getting along less recently and less than a week ago he broke up with me. He said we did not have enough in common and that he was over us getting annoyed over the smallest things. He also told me he wants someone he can share everything with, but he shares all of his emotional/personal problems with me so I feel like its our social life that is failing since I used to be fun and share in the good times now I feel like a buzzkill I just sit at home and watch food network and dont feel well haha. Multiple friends have come up to me and told me he complained about me not ever going out with him recently. Literally everyone was shocked and did not see it coming. I checked any type of communication to see if i missed anything in there but he had been sending me extremely nice messages and telling me he missed me up until the morning he broke up with me. He tells me how he thinks im the prettiest girl he knows all the time and actually while we were breaking up, he told me this (!?). Also not to sound super cocky but I am considered to be attractive by men and I model for a top agency internationally(sorry if I do sound cocky). He told me there is no one else and he is spending time with his family as he is having family problems. He also told me he wants to or will actually end up beating up any guy that I will see after him because he has already thought of how jealous he will be. Also, in my emotional state while being dumped haha, I asked if we could still see each other without him being my boyfriend. He said of course and that he always has fun with me (Wtf!? ) and that he thinks about me before he goes to bed every night. I know typical break up rules, dont talk to him, no contact, ... haven't talked to him. It's been less than a week and I don't even know what I'd say to him that doesnt sound stupid and pathetic anyway haha. I am crazy about the guy and wish there was a way to work it out. Trying to keep this light but I'm straight up miserable and have found it hard to do daily activities. Any advice? I've started going out again and trying to get back to the fun girl I used to be, mostly for my mental health (dont want to be sitting home alone right now moping) and I'm hoping I could try hanging out with him casually (no sex) like a month from now and see if we just needed some time apart to stop the stupid bickering and for me to get out of my slump. ANY feedback would make me so excited. It would just make my day. I know you know how it is or you wouldn't be on this site. I'm going nuts and need to speak to people that actually understand. Thank you, thank you so much and anything you would like to ask me about yourself, I am all ears! Guess I didn't succeed in making this too short...
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