bulldoggirl Posted October 12, 2004 Posted October 12, 2004 My brother is 22 & is dating an 18 year old girl, and here's the problem...she's at my parents house (I'm married so I don't live at home anymore, but my bro. does) CONSTANTLY. If my brother is there, she's there...he doesn't have a spare hour to himself! My mom is at her whits end over all this, she's sick of this GF being there all the time, and to add to it, she's very bold. She'll open up the fridge & ask "what you got to eat?" etc.....I'm amazed. I NEVER acted like that when I was 18. And another thing...get this...they have sex in my brothers room, about 10 feet away from the kitchen/computer room where my mom is most of the time when she's there....mom can hear the GF moaning all the time! She said it's like she WANTS her to hear her moaning! My mom is ready to scream....she's talked to my brother, but to no avail... I'm asking if all 18 year old girls act this way because not only does my brother have a gf like this, but one of my guy friends also has a girlfriend who is at his house constantly, and his mom feels the same as my mom! I told her they should form a support group! Are all 18 year old girls as bold as these 2 are?? I just can't understand it because I never wanted to spend every waking moment at my bf's house! Maybe I'm just too old now....I'm almost 26! Anyway, I just wanted to see if this is normal for teens nowadays!!!
She's Come Undone Posted October 12, 2004 Posted October 12, 2004 I don't know the answer, but both of those mothers need to remember whose house it is, and who makes the rules in it. Your brother is old enough to get the boot for disrespecting your mom. After all she's the one allowing this behavior to continue. Sorry to be so blunt but that s*** would NEVER happen in my house.
DJ_Dork Posted October 12, 2004 Posted October 12, 2004 Tell your mom to install a hidden camera and sell it on the internet for $$$.
honey2005 Posted October 12, 2004 Posted October 12, 2004 I'm not like that at all. I've very shy, and I would NEVER open someone's refrigerator and ask what they have to eat . When I go to my cousin's house I have to wait to eat until she does because I'm too shy to go in and get food myself. I'm sure not all 18 year old girls are as bold as her, or as shy as me, but I'd guess many of them are in between. I think it's VERY rude of him and his girlfriend to be having sex in his mother's house, not to mention with her 10 feet away! If I was her I would definitely put my foot down and tell him that if he wants that to continue, he will have to do it somewhere else.
faux Posted October 13, 2004 Posted October 13, 2004 Not all eighteen year-old girls are like the two you described. However, all eighteen year-old girls who are big trouble are like the two girls you described.
Merin Posted October 13, 2004 Posted October 13, 2004 Originally posted by She's Come Undone I don't know the answer, but both of those mothers need to remember whose house it is, and who makes the rules in it. Your brother is old enough to get the boot for disrespecting your mom. After all she's the one allowing this behavior to continue. Sorry to be so blunt but that s*** would NEVER happen in my house. Good Point! He is 22.. old enough to move out if he doesn't like your Moms rules.
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