My ex of 6 yrs has been manipulated into ending our relationship by a spiritual cult

[Aleasha]

Here's my story my ex broke up with me 7 weeks ago I found out he was messaging a 40yr old women he thought he was ment to be with her because of this spiritual cult group he is in a vulnerable position as we broke up and is finding it hard to let me go these older women have manipulated him into thinking he has done the right thing and playing with his emotions he has just realise this also I had my gut feeling to and today this lady I don't know approaches me and starts talking about these women and what they do to these family men they prey on the younger men only as they try to split up this ladies family but she put a stop to them so basically she has confirmed every thing I was feeling she told exactly what they are doin flirting with them messin with these young men I feel angry that my little family has been torn apart by these phoney people claiming to be spiritual people the thing is me and my ex still have strong chemistry and the spark is still there I was going to see him free to do what he wishes by now that that lady has also confirmed what I thought I feel like I can't let him go until I try and make him see sense he is the father to my child I just want this all to stop

[loveunlimited]

I'm sorry, I gave up reading, You really need to learn to punctuate. That's why people aren't responding to your threads.

[Sunshine87]

What cult is this?

[Sunshine87]

Are you a Christian?

[starlet86]

Ok, take a breath and explain that again. I don't fully understand.Your partner wants to work it out with you, but this "cult" is stopping him, how? How did he get involved in this "cult". I know plenty men and women who have been lured away from their loving partners because someone else has flirted with them. I know people who love being home wreckers. These older woman who like younger men do not belong to a cult though, they are called Cougars and they are just older women who like younger men.

 

Explain this again because all I am reading is that someone flirted with your man and he left you.

[melodymatters]

Yeah, we need more info on this " cult", otherwise it sounds like your BF simply found someone he likes better and she happens to be older.

[Aleasha]

Well it's a spiritual group it's not a religion, these women have done this before to other people other families and couples, he has now come to realise what they have done, and have been doing to other people he has broken away from them now

[JustAReformedGirl]

Here's my story: My ex broke up with me 7 weeks ago. I found out he was messaging a 40yr old woman he thought he was meant to be with because of this spiritual cult group. He is in a vulnerable position, as we broke up and he is finding it hard to let me go. These older women have manipulated him into thinking he has done the right thing, and play with his emotions. He has just realised this also. I had my gut feeling too, and today this lady I don't know approaches me and starts talking about these women and what they do to these family men. They prey on the younger men only; as they try to split up this lady's family. But, she put a stop to them, so basically she has confirmed everything I was feeling. She told me exactly what they are doing; flirting with them, messing with these young men. I feel angry that my little family has been torn apart by these phoney people, claiming to be spiritual people. The thing is, my ex and I still have strong chemistry and the spark is still there. I was going to set him free to do what he wishes. By now that lady has also confirmed what I thought; I feel like I can't let him go until I try and make him see sense. He is the father to my child; I just want this all to stop

 

Sorry, but I had to fix your post to make any kind of sense of it. Anyone else who wants to read it without their eyes hurting, there you go.

 

Okay, so what is this cult? What do they profess to practice, exactly?

 

I feel like there's a big, gaping hole in your story.

 

Either way, if both you and your partner want things to work out, he needs to leave this spiritual cult, and you guys need to work on whatever's wrong in your relationship.

 

Frankly, the whole thing sounds fishy, to me.

[Sunshine87]

Well it's a spiritual group it's not a religion, these women have done this before to other people other families and couples, he has now come to realise what they have done, and have been doing to other people he has broken away from them now

 

Cults are indeed capable of taking people away from their families. I know someone who cut off from his family because of a cult. He wants absolutely nothing to do with them. You say he has broken away from them. Are you back together now?

[Aleasha]

No he not living with us in our family home, we have decided to start dating again, so I'm just going to see what happens...