Eternal Sunshine Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Say you have started dating someone and things are going well. Just making light comments like "can't wait to see you"., "wow, I love that shirt you are wearing" etc... Or is this making yourself sound too keen and a turn off?
miss_jaclynrae Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 My man and I did it from the get go, he still does. With many other guys there was lots of sweet talk too.
therhythm Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Not really my thing, I actually feel quite uncomfortable with it.. I think actions speak louder than words...
Emilia Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 In my experience they like a combination of sweet talk that gets then twisted with some cheekiness: ie saying something corny and turning it into a backhanded compliment. 2
Xinreeki Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 All men are going to be different, but my bf LOVES sweet talk! So, really, its all going to depend on the guy, but you can probably judge from his personality whether he's into that sort of thing or not? If you can't, just ask him (assuming you feel comfortable asking that sort of thing), I'm sure he'll let you know how he feels about it.
peter_87 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 It indeed depends on the guy. Personally, I enjoy it. 1
Author Eternal Sunshine Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 Also baby voice only works on adolescent boys to get what you want. You can't fool a man that way. It works on my cat too 1
sillyanswer Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Just making light comments like "can't wait to see you"., "wow, I love that shirt you are wearing" etc... So long as it seems sincere, it's great. I can't wait to see you, too, ES. 2
salparadise Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Men like a well delivered compliment. We all have egos. Some would have you believe they are the exception.
veggirl Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I'd assume if it's genuine it's all good. Like for me, not a dude obvs but still, I like a compliment/sweet talk that sounds like its for ME not just something a guy says to every girl. Like I always laugh when guys like being told they're the best lover or have the biggest dick....like the chick hasn't said that to other guys before.
Mike W Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I do! But I suppose it depends, I can't see why someone wouldn't though.
EasyHeart Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 As long as it's sincere (or at least sounds sincere).
EasyHeart Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Like I always laugh when guys like being told they're the best lover or have the biggest dick....like the chick hasn't said that to other guys before. Wait. WHAT?!?
ltjg45 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Like I always laugh when guys like being told they're the best lover or have the biggest dick....like the chick hasn't said that to other guys before. That is one of the responses that I don't want to hear because I'm sure that is completely false if she ever tries to test the field. In fact, I may be more willing to let her go after hearing that. I may be OK in bed but the best lover? Man, women give me too much credit these days. And what would happen if she does find someone that is better in bed than me? Well, I guess I'm done here.
charlietheginger Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Say you have started dating someone and things are going well. Just making light comments like "can't wait to see you"., "wow, I love that shirt you are wearing" etc... Or is this making yourself sound too keen and a turn off? It turns us on ! When a woman says nice things we like it... Examples.... That color shirt looks good on you it brings out the Green/blue in your eyes. Ahhh new hair cut looks nice how she cut it in the back I like it when your a little scruffy its sexy. Now its not stroking his ego but its SHOWING YOU NOTICE AND HAVE GENUINE INTEREST in us rather Then it all being about the woman.... Guys like to feel that you "actually like us " and that Were not just a wallet that pays for dinners dates and gifts
Feelin Frisky Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Sweet talk is great--to a point. If there is no sweet action then it can be seen through as manipulative. I ran with a girl for a while in the mid 90's who would often coo and make goo goo eyes and talk silly to the birdies and blah blah. But it eventually showed up that she just did that to get stuff out of me. I had to tell her to stop teasing me like that. She had awesome tits. But wasn't forthcoming with them. Boo.
Ripnet Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Doesn't do much for me, I prefer some kind of action and I don't mean sex. Maybe she will want to hold my hands or give me a deep long hug or kiss me when I"m not expecting it. A lot of people say things they really wouldn't do. Women used to tell me you're such a great guy any woman would be lucky to have you. But when they are single they had no interest in me.
crederer Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Men, just like women, enjoy compliments. The best compliment is making him a sandwhich. Kidding....kidding. But seriously, he'd love it.
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