Hyacin Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I have survived the unimaginable, sometimes im amazed at myself. On our honeymoon i discovered that this man was receiving and exchanging nude emails with another woman. I forgave and moved on. Meanwhile for a whole year he decided to go back to school and i footed the bill and the mortgage and his car payments because at the time i owned a business and i could afford it. After his graduation i lost my business during the recession and he got a good job and what did he do then? cheat some more...speaks to me in such a disrespectful way and expects me to be quiet and take it all because i am a woman. I lost it last week and really maligned him (wont lie about it) I had just had enough. Anyways he asked me for a divorce and even though we have two small children involved in our marriage, I feel its time to move on. I dont want to keep at nothing. I dont believe he loved me and that makes me more angry than hurt. I am leaving everything i acquired for him and with him (because i bought a car for him when he was schooling and paid the car note till he was done with school) I dont mind leaving it all. I need my sanity. My only problem is i dont have enough money to move because i was a stay at home mum whiles he worked full time. He only agreed for me to work on his off days which is 2 days out of the week but I have made aware that we need shared custody so i can work fulltime too. Dont want to look back again. I am over him already.
Author Hyacin Posted June 18, 2013 Author Posted June 18, 2013 Sometimes peace is better than anything this world has to offer. I thought about that through and through and I feel its better to move on and leave everything for him. I know I can make it. I did once before. Not everything is worth fighting over. Not every divorce has to end up ugly. You have a choice to either drag yourself through years of emotional stress and choosing what seems like a difficult road but more peaceful. He will look back....oh yes! I am 100% sure of that but it will be too late.
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