StephanieJayne Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I was really confused about how he felt about me and wondered what was going on with us because it had been 4 months and we acted like a couple. So I asked him what was going on with us and he told me he didn't know what he wanted and he didn't know what I wanted and that he doesn't want to hurt me. I told him its obvious that I wanted to be more then friends and I felt led on. He then told me He was sorry and he feels he doesn't deserve me because he has no goals in life, cant commit to a relationship in general because he is too screwed up. He says were two different people I work and study and he doesn't have a job or future ambitions ( I know this kind of person isn't desirable to be with but I cant help who I fell for) He wanted to remain friends but I told him it is too hard for me to stay friends when I have feelings for him and I think its best we cut ties. He hasn't taken this very well and keeps getting drunk and texting me things like "Were still friends, I care about you so much please don't cut me off" "I think and worry about you a lot" I have told him its too hard to be friends since I still have feelings for you. We've already crossed the friends line going back would be awkward, I think its best we cut ties. 2 weeks no contact and he randomly called me again at 2 am on the weekend I'm guessing drunk.. I really miss him and I cant stop thinking about him and I still feel very sad about the whole thing. Am I doing the right thing by not being his friend and ignoring his calls?
TaraMaiden Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Three words: Change. Your. Number. (and don't say that's not possible. I have - twice. AND I ran a business from my phone.) Yes, you are absolutely doing exactly the right thing - but ask your server to change it by one digit, because you keep getting phone calls for someone else and you're getting sick and tired of it, or something. Move on gurl. Take the initiative, leave this guy standing. He's a creep. He wants his cake and eat it. He can't have it both ways. He either wants to be with you or not - but he has no right to keep messing with you like this. And drunken texts - ?!? Oh go phukk yerself, dude!! 1
Simon Phoenix Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Yes you are. It's hard but you are doing the correct thing.
Hopeinme Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Sound like a jerk. Please maintain your NC! Hugs x
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