Jump to content

Insanely hot girlfriend cheated on me... can't stop picturing it in my head..

blakeatron

By blakeatron
in Coping

 Share
While the thread author can add an update and reopen discussion, this thread was last posted in over a month ago. Want to continue the conversation? Feel free to start a new thread instead!

Recommended Posts

blakeatron Member

blakeatron

Posted
Posted (edited)

My 21 year old ex girlfriend of 4 months and I broke up about 5 days ago. She is really hot (9 or a 10) and definitely the hottest girl I have ever dated. She has the same body dimensions as Kim Kardashian and a much better face. She has back dimple piercings as well as a belly button piercing.

 

I am completely over her as a person. She was a ****ty person and a terrible human being. I just can't shake the jealousy feeling in my head though. Every time I try to avoid the situation in my head, I spend my time thinking that I am never going to find a girl as hot as her and it's making me incredibly depressed.

 

Like I said, I am completely over her emotionally as we didn't even really have that much in common.

Edited by a LoveShack.org Moderator
aliceinthebox Member

aliceinthebox

Posted
Posted

You might not find someone as physically good looking, but when you find someone that you really care about there won't be a reason to compare.

  • Like 2
maturityassets Established Member

maturityassets

Posted
Posted

Really? It matters how hot they are? Like yeah sure you get to brag to your friends or just boost your ego in saying you landed a 9 or 10. But jeez who cares if they are hot or just cute, as long as you like them and have feelings for them. I use to think my ex was so sexy, seemed like every guy who knew her just wanted to hook up with her. I was utterly in love with her and it hurt more than anything when she left because she said I was the first guy she ever loved as well. 3 months later though? I met someone even sexier, agreed upon by my friends, and she is a lot more intact of a person. Has her priorities straight and instead of feeling like I have to work for her attention like I had to with my ex, the new girl constantly wants to be with me and would rather have her do stuff for me than me for her. Plus it feels nice to have someone willing to wait for you, before labeling it, than the other way around

  • Like 1
Bito Established Member

Bito

Posted
Posted

Its ok to feel bad about this man. DOes not make you shallow. At our age we want to have sex with attractive women. That said don't tred on it for long. In the grand scheme of things it does not matter one bit how thin her waistline was or how suple her breasts are. In 20 years she will sag and not be attractive the same way she is now. But she might still be that awfull person. So be thankful you escaped desiese free and only emotionally hurt. Use that pain to strengthin your resolve as a person and improve. We humans must learn not to let our significant others become an extension of our ego. Haveing her as a girlfriend does not boost your social capitol like you May think it does. Remember to keep perspective and move on...

CopingGal Established Member

CopingGal

Posted
Posted
My 21 year old ex girlfriend of 4 months and I broke up about 5 days ago. She is really hot (9 or a 10) and definitely the hottest girl I have ever dated.

 

 

So what? If you want a decent relationship with a woman of substance, you'd better start paying attention to what's on the inside.

eleve82 Established Member

eleve82

Posted
Posted

Reality check: 9 or 10s will only really commit to 9 or 10s themselves - this is literally scientifically proven through a study done in the UK: attractive people usually keep moving towards the best they can get.

 

So if looks are the only thing you care about, then maybe it's time for a reality check.

  • Like 4
Giha Established Member

Giha

Posted
Posted

The girl I thought was the most beautiful girl in the world broke up with me once. The most beautiful girl in the world broke up with me 1.5 months ago. Do you see where I'm going with this?

  • Like 3
SuperGeek Established Member

SuperGeek

Posted
Posted (edited)

She's 21. At that age life is just starting basically. I don't think any of my relationships lasted longer than a few months at that age.

 

Nothing you can do but move on from it. Just think about all the GUYS who will never experience what you did with her though, even if it was just for a short time ;)

 

The really hot girls in my past wern't really that great to be with. My best times were spent with just average (looks wise) women and that is what I prefer now. I avoid the really hot ones because it's usually more work than it's worth.

 

Don't buy the Lamborghini that costs $500 to do an oil change. Buy the nice Honda that still looks great, less maintenance, less cost, and will have the ability to last a long time if you take moderate care of it.

 

Lamborghini can be driven for about 2-3 hours tops before you get bored of them. At least that's how it is for me. And I've driven both types (the car and the girl).

 

SuperGeek

Edited by SuperGeek
  • Like 1
 Share
Go to topic listing
×
×
  • Create New...