AnotherBrokenheart. Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 My ex and I had been living together for 5 months. 3 months into the relationship he started to get controlling, mean to me, called me ugly, a b*** , c*** , just the meanest things ever. He also broke my laptop , my phone, took money from me. He also put me in jail. Because he told the cops I bit him. So anyways, as you can see our relationship was not good. We had some good times, like our vacations, and the sex was great, but now I broke up with him because we took a "time out" and while on time out he cheated on me, and I didn't do anything with anyone. So I dumped him because I was so mad. And it's been 3 days I've done N/C. But HE keeps trying to call me!!!!!! Yesterday he left me a voice mail telling me he misses me and loves me. He cheated on me!!!! I hate his guts!!!!!!! Why won't he leave me alone? In heart broken !!!! He keeps telling me these things it makes me sick to my stomach. I do miss him, but I hate him so muchhhhhhhh for what he's done. I don't have any desire to be with any other guys and he cheats on me????? He makes me sick, He won't stop texting me and he left me a voicemail saying "I'm gonna leave you voicemails from time to time until I'm over you". Like wtf is that????? I'm so mad and heartbroken. I feel sick and mad at myself for allowing him to abuse me and treat me this way.
LovelyDaze Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 This is all unnecessary drama masked in "passionate love." What you are witnessing and experiencing is the beginning of how your ex BF will KNOW you will allow. If you give in after all of the BS you have just stated, you will be giving your ex the green light to treat you even worse. That means, more broken stuff, possibly more dramatic police involvement, and DEFINITELY more cheating. If that sounds like love to you, by all means, get back with him. If you are ready to stop hurting and have a chance at REAL love, go NC immediately. The whole relationship is one unhealthy mess. 1
BrokenHeartedSavior Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 (edited) This is all unnecessary drama masked in "passionate love." What you are witnessing and experiencing is the beginning of how your ex BF will KNOW you will allow. If you give in after all of the BS you have just stated, you will be giving your ex the green light to treat you even worse. That means, more broken stuff, possibly more dramatic police involvement, and DEFINITELY more cheating. If that sounds like love to you, by all means, get back with him. If you are ready to stop hurting and have a chance at REAL love, go NC immediately. The whole relationship is one unhealthy mess. Yep, exactly how my EIGHT YEAR relationship was with my ex. Toxic as hell. Edited June 17, 2013 by BrokenHeartedSavior Sp
CopingGal Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I hate to tell you, but you should have left your ex before the cheating even started. "3 months into the relationship he started to get controlling, mean to me, called me ugly, a b*** , c*** , just the meanest things ever. He also broke my laptop , my phone, took money from me. He also put me in jail. Because he told the cops I bit him." That's enough to leave the ex right then and there. Stay away from this punk. He sounds like a HORRIBLE boyfriend. 3
yessy21 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 I hate to tell you, but you should have left your ex before the cheating even started. "3 months into the relationship he started to get controlling, mean to me, called me ugly, a b*** , c*** , just the meanest things ever. He also broke my laptop , my phone, took money from me. He also put me in jail. Because he told the cops I bit him." That's enough to leave the ex right then and there. Stay away from this punk. He sounds like a HORRIBLE boyfriend. 100% Agree with this response
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