syndactyly Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 So I've been talking to this guy. We went to school together but recently got back in touch after about a year. We went on a first date. No kiss or nothing, hug and goodbye. The date went well. This weekend though we were texting and asked if I wanted to come over. I did, and well, one thing lead to another and boom. We had sex. We both wanted to, I loved it. That was the first time kissing him, and of course, doing everything else. He even kissed me goodbye outside of his apartment complex. Today we went on another date that was preplanned. Movies. We held hands, rubbed his arm, he on my thigh and knee, ect. I asked him what his plans were later as we walked out. He mentioned something about his power shutting off shortly before he got there because of a storm and that he had to go back home. He did happen to mention that before the movie. I half feel like it was an excuse maybe. We both went in for a hug, but I kind of tried to kiss him as he went for my cheek. I thought he was going for my lips, honestly! We laughed it off, but god I was embarrassed. What does this mean? Does he even like me, seriously?
undergroundlife13 Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 Thats a good sign, he didnt want to have sex again because hes interested in you.
vegaslady Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 When in doubt, pull back and be patient. Make him do all the communicating......if he wants to keep seeing you outside he house on actual dates, this is good. If he wants you to just come over each other's house, this is bad. Hold off on having sex again for a bit, you did rush into it too soon IMO. If he actually likes you, he will stick around.
Author syndactyly Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 Thank you for your responses. I do think we did have sex too soon, hah, very soon, but what is done is done. He is a gentleman and I would hope you guys are right.
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