l_Tess_l Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 My partner and I r on a break after a few HUGE rows... he has really bad anger management issues (which have only come up a few times thank goodness) and says he will get help with this, but i seriously doubt he will as he is sooo busy with work.... work always comes first with him.. He has been using substances and being very unavailable emotionally to me within the past 6 months or so, so I called him on it, hence the huge arguments... which he did stop recently I really don't think we can work through this, but he is certain that we can.... he is currently away, which i feel is avoiding what is going on... but he says that it will give us time to realise what is important to us... i think he is trying to get me to miss him, which i do.. it is ridiculous When I think about it I am not sure I really like him as a person? we get on really well, but he seems to suppress what he wants then blows up about not ever doing anything that he wants to do... he also is very jealous of friends of mine (male) that I am not in anyway interested in.. Reading this makes me think how horrible it has actually been..
landshark Posted June 17, 2013 Posted June 17, 2013 And the upside to this guy, Tess? If you don't like him as a person, sooner or later you will lose respect for him....
Author l_Tess_l Posted June 17, 2013 Author Posted June 17, 2013 very good point landshark... we do get on, but I think all the good points are lost.. is really sad... can't believe I have got myself in this mess...
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