We're About To Reconcile :)

[Atalya]

Hello all,

I'm still in NC with Jay and we're at 61 days but a lot of things have been happening. It's been awhile since I've last heard something about Jay but this time was very important. We've been out of each other's lives for awhile. A friend informed me that Jay has been talking about a reconcilation and getting back together. That the friend told him that he should focus on repairing the relationship *(We fell out and things were nasty since he made the decision out of anger).

 

I'm guessing it could be anytime now. After giving myself enough time to think about everything, I can come into this relationship stronger. Jay will have to improve on a lot of things but I'm ready to reconcile and move on to trying again. I will have to come down hard on some of the things that happened because his behavior was not the best after the break up but that's over and we're moving on now.

 

It's really exciting that we're not far away. I've wanted to reconcile for some time now. One of the biggest challenges is his illness because he's still sick but I'm ready to handle that full on.

 

I don't mind that he's taken this long. He made the choice and it killed him to do so. I don't want him to rush but to take his time. A reconcilation is not something you should rush. It is a very sensitive process. It has to be done carefully and at the right time.

 

I have forgiven him and he can have another chance. He's been making a lot of changes to do better so our relationship will be better than it was.

 

I can't wait to have him back with me again. I've missed him so so much.

[TaraMaiden]

Well....good luck with that.

I have just finished congratulating you in your other thread, for moving on.

 

Hope I didn't speak too soon.

 

Address the issues that split you up.

Resolve them.

 

Otherwise, this will happen again.

[SimonSerenade]

Good luck to you, don't go round in circles trying to fix this, start fresh and be happy