Do you think he'll be in touch?

[nicknock81]

Hi

 

So i met a guy in a bar last week and both of our sets of friends left and we stayed out together until 6am! Got on really well, lots in common, friends in common etc. We got a taxi home to our separate houses and he text me there and then so i had his number and said he'd like to go out for drinks.

So when i got in i replied and said i got his text ok and he said he really hoped he'd get to see me again, keen , but so was i so i liked it

 

So he got in touch last Sunday and arranged a date for Friday just gone, it went really well! I went back to his place for a while but was pretty much well behaved We had some very heated fumbling shall i say and he asked me to stay over, not in that sense, just said i was welcome to stay as it was late. We were quite drunk and i remember saying i wouldnt sleep with him because i liked him. But anyway, i declined and said i would go home.

 

I text him yesterday to say i had a nice time (i didnt want him to think id left because i wasnt in to it) he replied and said he had a really nice time too with a smiley face then i replied asking him something about his day and he didnt reply. :/

 

To be fair, he has not replied to messages before in conversation so its not new, but i guess im panicking now. Would you reply at all if you wernt interested? And he said REALLY nice time with a smiley, which you wouldnt would you? You'd just say me too, or ignore it or something? I feel like maybe i said too much by telling him i liked him, but i dont believe in games and it was technically second date so thats acceptable isnt it?

 

Arrrghhh, i know im massively over analysing but i havent dated for a while and hes the first person ive sparked with so im hoping he'll be in touch!

 

x

[melodicintention]

The only time to get frustrated over a guy is AFTER has has asked you to be his girlfriend and then acts weird. Before he has even proven that he is boyfriend material, then he is just a dude to date until the right guy makes his love for your known. No guy is ever worth stressing over this early in the game. How do you know he won't turn out to be a user, and abuser, or have other issues? It's to early to care if he calls you back. Get past him, go meet some other guys so you stop obesessing on this dude.